theres this guy that im instantly attracted to, hes all i can think about but he doesnt know i exsist, its like we live on different planets (seriously.) lol he lives in the town beside mine, but i see him all the time, and especially when school starts back because of school games, i want to get his attention..i want him to look at me and say "wow who is that" like i did when i saw him.
please no dumb comments like strip naked and run infront of him, decent things please.
2006-07-10 14:36:57 · 28 answers · asked by Alisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well people are not blind even you can't see them looking at you they are doing it.I'm sure that guy has seen you many and many times and maybe knows your name.Who knows maybe he likes you too.But don't try to do something to have his attention 'cause you can look ridiculous.
I have been many times in that kind of situation and i finished by discovering that they know all about me my name,where i live,my grade,which school i'm going too...ect They even knew about me more than i knew about them.Some guys act like that sometimes they think they think girls like when people pay attention to them (which is sometimes right).So guys ignore you to prove the opposite to show that you are not as beautiful as you think 'cause they don't like when a girl show up all the time.But they like you.
So what i will tell you to do is: first be more sexy than you use to be,then ignore him too; i mean act like he was invisible and finally do anything to make him see you when talk with the other guys in the neighborhood or even some of his if you know them or if you don't it's ok anyway talk to all the guys you want except him and always make sure that he will see you even if he will act like he is not looking at you.Trust me by this way he come to you If he doesn't that means he is selfish he wants you but don't wanna do the first step.So after doing all i said you start greeting him saying a little"Hi" or "Good morning" with a smile that will give him the courage to come to you.
2006-07-10 15:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Naty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell u the truth, there are so many guys in this world why limit urself to a guy that doesn't even talk to u? U have to know him before u can like him. U might want to consider why u want him to notice u so much now. Is it his apearance, or personality? If u think about ur reason for wanting him to notice u and u still feal the same, then maybe u should go talk to him. If he is nice and sounds like someone u really want to get to know then ask him if he feels the same. Who knows? He might really be nice and like u too.
2006-07-10 21:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by politicaltnt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself- cliche'? no it really works- there is more than one way to wow a guy. sometimes it's best not to use the same tactics as the rest of the world like wearing make up, or revealing clothes, being you will work. Spark a convo- start with hi.
2006-07-10 21:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by nexus2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is be yourself. Go up to him the next time that you see him and introduce yourself. Ask him if he'll be interested in a date. Then you can go from there. For all you know he might be scoping you too.
2006-07-10 21:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Pepper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and comment on how well he plays whatever sport it is he plays. You have to say something to him so that he knows you exist, but after that I wouldn't chase him. Once he knows you exist let him do the rest of the work. Remember, you are a prize and he would be lucky to have you in his life.
2006-07-10 21:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by bebelucy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start talking to him know what you are going to say so that u don't bore him or embarrass urself get to know him. become a good close friend and after a while when u really trust eachother tell him while watching a sunset or something special u know? when the rigt moment comes.
2006-07-10 21:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give your self a make over and make your self noticable to him make him just say omg get active don't be a shy sensitive type person unless thats what he's into you feel my word up hope you get your ma because i know you can god made everyone beautiful if he dosen't notice you now the he's the one that missed out someone else will notice and be attracted
2006-07-10 21:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress like a cheerleader and be everywhere he is.if you want a guy to look at you then you need to do something extreme.so show some skin, go braless while wearing loose tops,wear short skirts with no panties.guy are dense, if we don't get a little "accidental" peek,(to show him what could be his), how are we to know your interested. hope this helps
2006-07-10 21:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i started off the same way with this guy i had a MAJOR crush on. so what i did was like kind of find an excuse to be around him more, and i also became friends with his friends[who turned out to be great friends], and i i'd find excuses to talk to him sometimes, and soon, all my friends were telling me that he liked me!
2006-07-10 21:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by $ I~♥~ELMO $ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go by him and start a conversation, like good game,huh? Stuff like will get his attention and introduce yourself.
2006-07-10 21:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by sweetstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋