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does that mean that he can be happy without having to do stuff? it seems like i have to force him to do stuff with me? thats not like most guys?

2006-07-10 14:32:52 · 15 answers · asked by katie a 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Well this question depends on your age. It sounds like you are young, so my response to you is don't rush it. If you both have fun without resorting to alot of touchy feely, then that's wonderful. Have a great time just spending time together. There is no need or requirement to have lots of kissing.

Some guys, especially at a young age are shy about physical intimacy because they are inexperienced and "don't want to mess up and look stupid". If he feels uncomfortable with your advances, then back off a bit and let him have the reigns. Maybe he just likes spending time with you and will advance into the kissing stage at his own pace.

It's a GREAT sign that he can be happy without doing *stuff*. Be glad you found someone who is willing to move slower. It's the best thing for you at a young age. There is alot of pressure for young women, especially by young men. Be happy you found someone who respects you enough not to pressure you. This is a healthy sign!!

Good Luck!!

2006-07-10 14:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by chalis913 4 · 0 0

What about your boyfriend's emotions? He has each and every accurate to be pissed and not in any respect communicate with you. you won't be able to pretend that this did not take position, because it did. Now you may want to cope with it. you ought to have slapped the guy. He knew you had a boyfriend. even as an excellent style of the blame lays on him, you won't be able to deny a element. the undeniable actuality that what your boyfriend misunderstood for a kiss is irrelevant. you're in a courting. there is provide and take. So what in case you don't like kissing each and each and every of the time? that isn't any reason to snub kisses from him. that is of direction a chasm on your courting if he were given disillusioned about it earlier the incident. He has a accurate to be disillusioned and if he leaves you i doesn't blame him. What this different guy did become placed your courting in jeopardy, and also you probably did not something about it. Arguments are a healthful area of a courting and could not scare you. in the adventure that they do, you ought to search for counseling to address issues from perhaps a previous situation. you won't be able to have a healthful courting without arguing.

2016-10-14 08:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe he feels like he's being smothered. Ask him not all of us strangers. I know its easier to ask a stranger than the loved one. The loved one might give you an answer you don't want to here. You have to be prepared to hear an answer you may not like.

I'm sure your a strong and stable woman and you can take anything he says.

2006-07-10 14:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by Average Man 2 · 0 0

sometimes the girls have to make a move so the guys don't have to do EVERY single thing. the girls should kiss them whenever so the guys wouldn't think he's annoying. do whatever you want with him. he will return the favor.

2006-07-10 14:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0 0

Some guys just aren't too into affection and PDA. My boyfriend doesn't do PDA, but when we're alone we kiss and cuddle but not too much. It all depends on how old you are and how you were brought up.

2006-07-10 14:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0 0

if any guy gets annoyed by anything when his with you thats not a good sign

2006-07-10 14:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by dede2772 4 · 0 0

it means your looking at a very dull relationship...if your unsatisfied now , imagine how you'll feel in 5 years...move on and find someone who treats you like a goddess

2006-07-10 14:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by m37734 4 · 0 0

no it means that like he just may not be attracted to u or may not want to have sex with u or take it to far

2006-07-10 14:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe you annoy the hell out of him and he wants to runaway...

2006-07-10 15:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0 0

be smart...people usually don't appreciate thing when it's easy to get...
(just my opinion)

2006-07-10 14:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by Haliluya 2 · 0 0

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