i really like my current boyfriend but i also like one of my best friends. i dont know if i should dump him or not for this other guy who is very controlling and imature somethimes . but he is also more reliable. what do i do?
2006-07-10 14:30:23 · 12 answers · asked by katie a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes when you get into a relationship like your thinking about with a close friend it ruins the friendship.
2006-07-10 14:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would stay with my current b/f. Why mess up something good, especially with another who is controlling, and immature? And who may not be interested in you anyway?
If you have reliability or other issues with your current boyfriend, you and he should talk. And while you talk, think of the fact that you could not be talking with someone who is controlling and immature.
Be thankful for that, and best wishes to you.
2006-07-10 14:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by raven s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is women who choose a guy and not the other way wrong. why would you want to be with some one that is always controlling you and immature.
If you like your current boyfriend why put your self into a situation with some one else that you will regret later on.
2006-07-10 14:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im guessing u want to keep ur current boyfriend since u didnt explain or tell anything about ur friend that u like... its kinda sub-concious because u really didnt mention ur friend maybe ur trying to say u still want ur boyfriend... but honestly i say u should pick ur friend and see what can happen between u two because i dont really like controlive guys and if they are imature he could change on you very quik because he doesnt know exactly what he wants
2006-07-10 14:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by Fumadero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump them both,cause if you come between two friends,you will be hated by both of them for a long time. you need to see more people before you settle on the guy you pick.it seems like no matter who it is, he will have something that you won't like about him.find someone who doesn't know you and start again.hope this helps
2006-07-10 14:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you need to keep them both. 2 men and one woman is always a winner.
2006-07-10 14:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know your best friend the best and from what i can see best f has the lead you know him better and you already know the deal however if you and your friend break up it might make things awkward for the two of you
2006-07-10 14:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your boyfriend. You could mess up you friendship with the other guy.
2006-07-10 14:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what i am in the same situation but irl i think we both should dump the controlling one.
2006-07-10 14:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by vera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do you feel best with? take your time...eventually the answer will come to you. try to disregard physical features....jus close your eyes and think which one makes you feel prettiest, most important, happiest, etc.
2006-07-10 14:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by supergenius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋