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how do i know if he is a waste of time? he makes me happy. but sometimes he just doesnt seem like the ideal boyfriend> wut should i do?

2006-07-10 14:16:57 · 16 answers · asked by katie a 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Read the book "He's just not that into you". Great advice and information for women 15 - 40. Also, listen to your friends. They usually have your best interests at heart.

2006-07-10 14:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by Genie 3 · 0 0

There are plenty fish in the sea..as the saying goes...The way to seek someone else is to start looking and talking to different guys...You don't seem real sure about him...when you have to question yourself about him not being an ideal boyfriend...You should play the field and see who you can make friends with...Maybe there is some just waiting for you to come along...Happy searching!

2006-07-10 14:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Its not always that your going to find the 'ideal' guy. I am actually in the same situation as you. He makes me so much happier than anyone else I have been with but my family/friends dont seem to see him the way I do. if he makes you happy I say stay with him, but you two seem to be on the verge of breaking up, then dont let your friends say 'I told you so.' tell them that you were happy with him and it was just another learning experience.
I hope this answer makes sense to you and I hope it helps.

2006-07-10 14:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

#1. Don't base your relationships on the advice of friends. Either they will say things to try and agree with you and keep you happy, or they will give you biased advice due to jealousy.
#2. Never date someone unless you are absolutely sure that you want to be with them. If you date someone that you are unsure about, you will end up regretting it.
#3. Listen to your intuition! If your heart is saying that there is something shady about this guy, there probably is!
Good luck!

2006-07-10 14:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by Answer Chick 2 · 0 0

You have answered that question already by him not being the ideal boyfriend some times.

If there is some thing about him that is going to be a real problem later on, let this be your guide in knowing were to go from there.

2006-07-10 14:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by Premio 4 · 0 0

You are wasting your time, but keep in mind, no one is perfect. If he makes you really happy and you feel safe around him, keep him. You don't need your friends to dictate your life and babysit you.

2006-07-10 14:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by The Shadow Lurker 2 · 0 0

goin through the same situatin but if u really lik him stay w/ him i mean my friendz dont tell me im wasting my time but lik do what ur heart tells u not what people say ask ur friendz why their not happy w/ ur guys realitionship! do what u feel is best!

2006-07-10 14:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by ever_aj_love 1 · 0 0

two birds with one stone dump him this way you will find out who your friends are and buy not being so close to him in time you will be able to maybe see what they see or you will see if it is for there personal gain good luck

2006-07-10 14:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by igottaknow 1 · 0 0

well talk to your friends ask them why don't they think hes for you.
Talk to him about how he feels.Friends are like that sometimes they get jelous but you do what you feel is right for you don't do what anyone else says follow your heart where it leads you yeah we all make mistakes and we learn from them.

2006-07-10 14:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal s 1 · 0 0

Listen to your friends! They're the ones that really care about you!

2006-07-10 14:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by Vanessa B 4 · 0 0

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