i have found atleast 4 pairs of womens underwear in my house in the last 3 months and i know its not cause he is cheating because i know whose underwear they are i have also found pictures of my female friends and family made into collages right along with the panties....how common is it for a married man to steal other womens underwear...im not bad looking i am 25 years old and 110 lbs we have a fairly active sex life and he has never asked anything odd or freakish of me he is not the player type and is fairly shy but we have been together for 11 years and married for 3 years..he says it has nothing to do with me but he cant seem to tell me why?? He has also developed a methamphetamine habit in the last year that i am dealing with as well and dont know if this type of behavior could be related to drug use or not ?? please help before i file for divorce i am extremely hurt by all of this!!!
2006-07-10 14:03:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This man has some serious sexual issues he is unwilling to admit to you. I wonder what it could lead to "making collages of your friends and family" and saving womens panties without your knowledge could be considered cheating on you don't you think? The drugs are a huge problem and it can ruin your life not to mention it is illegal but I think it's a sypmtom of larger problem. This man needs to see a therapist and unless you force it on him he won't go. I feel so sorry for you but unless you do something to get him to get help your in for bad times. Sorry.
2006-07-11 04:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Well, the thing with the panties is pretty upsetting, he's clearly fantasizing about your female friends and family, but I think you need to be even more worried by the meth habiit -- that stuff can really mess a person up. Either he needs to kick the habit and get his head screwd on right again, or you need to get out of there.
2006-07-10 14:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start a "panty-Cam" and follow him around to see how he accumulates these things. We would all like to know and you could make a few bucks, too.
But in truth, you need to get away from this guy because of the drugs. You should be asking about how to deal with that. Forget the panties....even though there must be more to the story.
2006-07-10 14:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
file for divorce as how can u love someone with problems and it is deep it is a bad habit risky one and drugs will take you into bankruptcy and abuse. It is a sickness to steal panties some ppl go into dormitory's to take girls panties and wear them some kind of sick conquest and especially those who are shy act odd or eccentric ways.. it has nothing to do with your looks women always take that personal for their mens behavioral patterns of change or cheating .. it is them..
2006-07-10 14:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man has a fetish for underwear. It's normal as long as he doesn't get caught by the owner. If he's trying to make you wear it or if he's wearing it himself...he probably needs help.
2006-07-10 14:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is wrong with him for real you need to get rid of him fast or suggest that he go and see a therapist about this problem. Then again this might be a fetish, or he's a cross dresser.
2006-07-10 14:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the... honey hes either wearing them or some sick perv. he needs professional help do somethan before it gets worse. know women should have to put up with that behavior.
2006-07-10 14:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by lovelaungauge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think this is common at all. To me he definitely needs counseling and getting clean of this drug.If he doesn't you will probably have to distance yourself from him.Things will get worse if he doesn't get help.
2006-07-10 14:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that's strange, i've never heard of such behavior in married men.
But i'll pray for you and hope things work out.
2006-07-10 14:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by saintfighteraqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be wearing the panties, but the drug use is a far worse problem.
2006-07-10 14:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋