i alays put my self out there. ive always been called hott behind my back. why wont guys tell me person to person. and when i do talk to guys they always have to go or end up ignoring me. i dont get it:(
2006-07-10 14:03:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOUR UGLY, THEY'RE SHY, OR YOU GOT AN UGLY PERSONALITY
2006-07-10 14:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may think you are hot, but perhaps they think you look too easy, and it just might be a turn off to them. What are you wearing when you "put yourself out there"? Stop trying so hard and perhaps you will find a decent guy who will see you for you and actually like you. Get noticed for who you are inside not for who you are outside. Strike up conversations with them and relax as you do that. They will like you for the person they see inside not for the miniskirt you can fit into to get their attention.
2006-07-10 21:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you hang out with too many guys you'll be considered 1 of 2 things, slut (desired by guys) or tonya-girl; undesired overall. So hang out with more girls, if guys only say your hott behind your back, then either your really damn hott or they're too nervous to say much to you.
If they continue to ignore you, then go to a different group of guys overall, just make sure that they don't know you.
Its the only way i see, but usually i deal with girls not guys, try it or don't you deside
2006-07-10 21:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by dancarrasquillo@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they admire your body but because you're so stuck on yourself they prefer not to hear you.
Perhaps if you could guarantee them a conversation about something else other than yourself you might get people to be nice to you.
TX Guy
2006-07-10 21:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur intimadating. i know i used to have that problem with guys and they'd tell me that they used to like me, but i'm just the type of person that seemed like I had very high standards. i dumbed down a bit, made myself more approachable and they came running in. if you need more advice... IM me fyredontbern.
2006-07-10 21:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably all think that either you have someone or you are out of their league, which is a common problem with beautiful women, they are probably scared of what you think of them
2006-07-10 21:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. No 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u too hot to be touched go girl if u leaved in my hood i would go 4 u coz i like a challenge
2006-07-10 21:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats simple either because your really not hot or you have shitty character, or both
2006-07-10 21:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either they don't think you're attractive or they are shy.
2006-07-10 21:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋