I just started dating this drill instructor in the marines and he is a nice person ..... i trust him.....people at my job are saying to keep checking to see if he's married there's a lady at my job that is pressuring me to investigate on him i feel soo bad about this situation i don't know what to do but i keep hearing this everyday i work around drill instructors and i know alot that faithfully wear their wedding band and some who don't.....what should i do?.....i feel that it's jealousy how do I stop it?
2006-07-10 13:54:25 · 13 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
Well this drill instructor wouldn't be too bright to date someone who is around his counterparts all day long. Do you see him after hours, can you call him at his house at any time, have you been to his house? These are all tell tale signs. If you can answer yes to them, then enjoy the relationship. If the answer is no, then start digging.
2006-07-10 13:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
No, all military men don't cheat. Don't listen to anyone who tells you any different. I have been happily married to my Navy husband for almost nine years, and he has never given me one reason to suspect him of cheating.
Don't let someone talk you into ruining your relationship with your boyfriend by convincing you he's a liar and cheat when he has never given you a reason to suspect that he is. It's not right. How would you feel if he started checking out your background and started accusing you of something when you haven't done anything wrong? Give him a chance. And if he does cheat, it's not because he's in the military, it's because he has no respect for women and he's a jerk!
If you're going to be in a relationship with a military man, you need to have trust there! They are away from home a lot, and you can't watch them 24/7. Whoever is telling you that all military men cheat probably had a bad experience herself, or someone close to her did, with someone in the military and now thinks they are all horrible! She would probably have the same opinion about doctor's if she had a bad experience with one of them!
2006-07-10 21:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Naples_6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all military men or women cheat. Some do, just like some civilian men cheat. My son is an officer in the military and has been raised to be an honorable man like his father who has never been in military. My son did not wear his wedding band in training as Ranger because it would catch on things. This information was volunteered to his wife & I over the phone. We did not know he was not wearing his ring. Some men do not like to wear jewelry of any kind - my brother hates jewelry as has hated it. Beware as there are scumbags in every part of life, not just military.
2006-07-10 21:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfpacker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No All military men do not cheat. Drill Instructors have less time to cheat than others. They are not imune to cheating, but they are the cream of the crop. It takes the best...to train the best!
2006-07-10 20:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Bear Naked 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what the job is, some men cheat, some don't. Some women cheat, some don't. Not all military members cheat, but some do. Same with military spouses. If you keep listening to what everyone else thinks, you will drive yourself nuts!
2006-07-10 22:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all military men cheat, neither do all military wives. However, it is more prevalent than in the civilian world. If you have reason to believe he's cheating, I would worry, but if it's just other people saying it I would ignore it. Trust your gut.
2006-07-10 21:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by Cloth on Bum, Breastmilk in Tum! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not listen to your coworker, do what you think is right. Not all military men cheat. I have dated several military men and most of them did not cheat. I am currently married to a military man and I never once felt that he was cheating.
2006-07-10 21:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, all men don't cheat. The only thing is, you have to meet their needs and be willing to talk openly. If he loves you and feels committed to you, he will stay faithful. Not all men are dogs.
If he does cheat, there's nothing you can do to change that.
You just have to move on to find the man you deserve.
2006-07-10 21:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all military men cheat. There are many wonderful family men in service who are devoted to their wives.
2006-07-10 20:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's cheatin' then you probably need to end the relationship...dating and marriage is all about trust and if you don't trust him then it's not going to work...
but if you trust him like you say you do, then you don't need to worry about the possibilty of him cheatin.
2006-07-10 21:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋