I'm 14 and so is he. We are going to High School in the fall. Is this bad?
2006-07-10 13:37:57 · 48 answers · asked by Anime_Fangrl1991 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
You may WANT to, but you shouldn't. Think about it. You might have a baby and have to drop out of high school. What would happen to you then? You would have to work a small job like at a grocery store or your local walmart. You would have to live from check to check. Plus you would have to pay for your child. Think about what COULD and might happen, and consider the consequences. Do you honestly think this guy would help you through it all? Your way too young to know if he's The One. Wait until your out of college or high school, then find a guy you love. 14 is way too young for love.
2006-07-10 13:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by ChaiTea 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is it bad that you're thinking of it? No. It's normal. Is it a bad idea to go ahead and do it? Yes. Sex takes a relationship to an emotional level and adds other problems to it that 14 just shouldn't have to deal with yet, even if you are really mature. There's just so much else going on in your life right now that you have to deal with, it's better to hold off a while on the sex part if you can because it's pretty heavy stuff.
2006-07-10 13:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14? Honey please don't give up your virginity. Please take it from me, I lost my virginity at the age of 16 with my ex boyfriend we were so in love we were even talking about marriage! Of course 7 months later we broke up and I have had 4 different sex partners and I'm only 17! of course I use a condom every time. But you know what is one thing i wish I still was A VIRGIN! Think what will happen if things don't work out for you and this boy? At least you will still be pure but If you loose your virginity to him you can NEVER get that back. Please don't do it. If both of you really love each other you should wait! At least until marriage or something. Once you have sex you want it all the time trust me! It's no good!
2006-07-10 13:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by shasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14. He may say he loves you then once he gets some he will be gone. Wait until you are out of high school to have sex, this way you will not have to worry about getting pregnant and not being able to finish school. If this guy really loves you he will wait. My boyfriend waited seven years for me so it does happen.
2006-07-10 13:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although sex is a wonderful thing you are WAY too young to get into it.
If you are not going to listen to all the people telling you not to, then at the very least, make sure you use a condom. This is not something to take lightly! Not only are you too young to worry about getting pregnant, some of the diseases out there will KILL you if not treated. Wait until you are a bit older and can use better judgment.
2006-07-10 13:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mark A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 08:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried that and it caused too much **** in the out come never **** some one you go to school with or work besides at 14 what kind of mother would you be if you got knocked up
2006-07-10 13:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy!!!! how i wish my kids would have listened to me. sweety, you have your whole life ahead of you and having sex at your age is not on your top 10 list of things to do. wait. wait. don't give it away so soon. you are only a virgin only one time and that must be the most special time in your life. let it go until you are emotionaly ready. cause i can guarentee you might think you are but........... you are not. take it from someone who has been there. i would do it all over again if i could.
2006-07-10 13:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by granny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE sweet heart. Before you make the most regretable mistake of your life DO NOT do it! It will never be worth it at 14 years old you are asking us because you aren't sure and if you are not 100% positive in your heart without public opinion IT IS WRONG! Honey if you need an adult woman to talk with please feel free to contact me @ spoiled_rttn32@yahoo.com
I work with young girls your age for a living please think about it.....you have your whole life to make that heart altering choice. Even wait a few more years at least I promise "patience is a virtue"!!!!!!!
2006-07-10 13:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by TootsiePop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, kid...you're 14. You don't have clue ONE about what love is.
Secondly, you should not even be thinking about sex at your age.
There are much more important, constructive things you could be doing with your time.
I pray to God my daughter is nothing like you when she's 14.
2006-07-10 13:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋