she's been harrassing me for a while ever since i told her i didn't like her, then to be nice i unblocked her from my AIM and then after she further harrassed me i told her to geta hint and leave me alone, then she sent the mean e-mail, should i report her tot he authorities?
2006-07-10 13:30:00 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No, just drop the letter off at her house and give it to her parents, and tell them if she continues to harass you in this manner, THEN you will go to the authorities!!!
2006-07-18 12:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by amygirl9333 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the previous answer, you need to put a stop to it asap or else it could get real dangerous...I had a friend who was dating my brother-in-law and she tried to do something about his harrassing phone calls and got a resstraining order put against him. That worked for a little while, but then he got violent and broke into her house and held her hostige in her own home, breaking both of her arms, and I'm not sure what else he did to her but if you file a complaint and get a restraining order on her, every time she sends you harrassing mail, e-mail, phone calls, etc. you have to keep a log of it AND you must call the law every time to be able to gather a strong case against her. If you want you can IM me any time to let me know how things are going.
2006-07-10 13:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by minniemm33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had to block this person from your AIM at one point I suggest that you do so again and if she gets around that somehow, don't respond at all. If the problem persists you may have to contact her internet service provider and report the harrassment... I have had this same situation happen to me and I had the person booted from the ISP never to be heard from again.
2006-07-10 13:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by pozoneatl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the others said, try ignoring her for awhile. But if she keeps it up for too long or it gets worse, I'd definitely report it. Keep all the messages she sends you so you have something to show the authorities. These types of situations can escalate.
2006-07-18 03:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by Garfield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you grow a set already. You report her abuse to the " on line police" and block her. period. Then if she continues, call the cops. Then If she still doesn't stop get a lawyer. Stop being a wuss. Fight back. ALL psycho bit#@s are the same. Emotional and stupid. Be the opposite. Rational and smart. You will rule the day.
2006-07-17 04:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by jim w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually that happened to me with a guy from the middle east. He chatted me up while I was playing an AOL game; I told him I wasn't interested but he sent me nasty IMs and e-mails. I reported him to AOL, and it stopped. I don't know if other mail services have a similar service. If not, just ignore/block her. Good luck!
2006-07-10 13:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by bloominggoddess1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sent a mean letter to a boy when I was a kid for a simular reason. It got turned into the school principal, reported to my parents, and they dealt with me. The authorities probably would've been nicer. Want to give it to my dad?
2006-07-10 13:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has threstened to harm you or someone else, then yes report her. Otherwise, be blunt with her and tell her to leave you alone and then ignore her. She'll eventually get tired of it. Don't threatened to call the polica on her unless you are prepared to go through with it.
2006-07-10 13:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont lower yourself to her level. Ignore her. She is just trying to aggrivate you, and if you show her that it is working, then she has gotten her wish. It may be hard to do, but let it roll off your back. Unless she actually threatens you with bodily harm or something illegal like that, then you have no grounds to go to the authorities.
2006-07-10 13:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the letter contains a threat or leads you to believe she might harm you, report it. Otherwise block her. She will probably get tired and go away.
2006-07-17 08:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by Kathleen C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋