The guy i like doesn't want to go out with me but he wants to sleep with me i am only 14 and i don't agree with this how do i tell him no? Last time i did he wouldn't talk to me.
2006-07-10 13:25:57 · 18 answers · asked by Lauren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guy is a total loser. move along. any guy who doesn't respect your decisions has nothing you need.
2006-07-10 13:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Choose Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't ever lower your self respect or self worth for the sake of a man. If he doesn't respect you than he is not worth the time. Your only 14 you have alot of life ahead of you and there will be many other guys that will want to treat you with the respect that you deserve. He apparently just wants the one thing from you. Enjoy being young don't mess up your life and get pregnant just because some guy you like wants to have sex with you.
2006-07-10 13:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lil's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This Guy don't like you as much as you like him. He only wants to sleep with you then move on to the next girl. Remember about Aids, getting pregnant and all the rest of disease out there.
Just tell him you are not going to sleep with him and move on. There is no point giving into him and you regret this mistake for the rest of your life. Stay in School, educate yourself and forget those losers out there.
You are 14, and you don't need that kind of situation this guys wants to put you in.
2006-07-10 13:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST of all you are only 14 shouldnt u be playing with your girlfriends running around thinking boys have cuddies and you should not be friends with a guy who wants to sleep with you, YOU ARE ONLY 14 do you really want a baby right now seriously please don't talk to him anymore so what if he gets mad HE is not worth it ok trust me you'll see this later good luck and be careful
2006-07-10 13:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Honey, you're 14 what are you thinking? IN the first place you shouldn't even be thinking about guys right now....I think it would be in your best interest to forget this guy, he's an asshole and you can't possible love him, so get away from him now that you can....And for you is much better if he doesn't talk to you....You're 14 for crying out loud!!
2006-07-10 13:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by hey_tiger_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to him, he doesn't deserve somebody like you. If he is only interested in sleeping with you, tell him to get lost. Trust me, there are lots of nice guys out there (more than you think, you just have to look for them). And you are still yound, plenty of time and opportunities.
2006-07-10 13:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by LW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up! Please do not let yourself be manipulated and controlled the way he's tried to do. It is abuse and you need to never get involved in such stuff. You'll be fortunate if he leaves you alone. You are NOT to let yourself be treated so badly. You should never tolerate such stuff no matter how much you want to be close to someone. What he's done is abuse and not to be tolerated. Get help from a school counselor, priest, minister or an adult you trust.
2006-07-10 13:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he only wants to sleep with you, and he doesn't want you for you, then he's not worth your time. You're so young; don't feel pressured just because you have a crush on him. Find someone who likes you for you and you'll be much happier.
2006-07-10 13:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him no and if he forces u to have sex call 911 and tell them he raped u cause u never know what a guy will do if u turn them down. but i would just move on and forget about him he sounds like a loser if he jsut wants u for sex. and if he dont get the hint get a restraning order on him
2006-07-10 13:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is a shallow sun of a *****. dont sleep with someone just because you think it will make them like you. he isn't right for you if all he wants to do is get in your pant. if you want to connect with this guy more then just physically then you cant just sleep with him and hope he likes you.
2006-07-10 13:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by kale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG OMG OMG I AM IN THE SAME EXACT SITUATION! i'm 14 and everything!!! i just keep telling him no. but now he's not talking to me. but i think it was for the best. but i love him, but if he can't except my desision, then i need to move on. and that's what you should do. (wow, i just answered a question i have of my own...)
2006-07-10 13:29:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋