I know her from school and now it's summer. I think I'm starting to like her, even though we don't hang out and I haven't seen her since school. I'm not sure at all if she would like me in that way, but I really want to go out with her. How do I do this in an e-mail or myspace??? Thanks a lot! It really means a lot!!!
2006-07-10 13:24:56 · 27 answers · asked by eagleboy225 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well just explain your self to her...it may seem a little weird asking on the net...but how else are you gonna ask? Well go for it. Ask her. You never know of she feels the same way about you.
2006-07-10 13:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just want to test the waters, ask her if you could call her sometime. Get her phone number.
You don't have to ask her out on a "date", just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. That way there is no pressure and she can get to know you better. Ask her what kind of movies she likes, then ask her if she has seen "(insert movie that is playing that matches her favorite movie type)", if she hasn't, ask her if she wants to go see it with you. Bring enough money for both of you in case she interprets it as a "date" (which would be OK, since this is what you really want anyway), and have a good time. Even if she pays for herself, it doesn't mean she's not interested in you, just have fun and get to know her better. Be yourself and if it is meant to be, you two will be dating soon.
You can do all this through email, but it really goes a lot faster if you actually talk to her.
Best of luck.
2006-07-10 20:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep it simple and open. For example:
"Hi this is (you),
"Sorry we haven't spoken in a while, but I was wondering if you wanted to hang out. Want to go (to the mall / roller skating / walk around downtown / out sightseeing / cow tipping) this Saturday?"
Ok maybe not cow tipping, but you get the picture. Keep it something out in the public so she won't feel uncomfortable, at least until you know what her feelings are for you, or if she's even interested. End the e-mail with "Talk to you soon!" and don't forget to leave your phone number. A lot of times people will take that as a hint and reply with their number as well.
Good luck!
2006-07-10 20:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sound like a younger person so whatever works but I wouldn't recommend doing it in the email. I would send her an email asking her if you can have her number. Then transition into chatting on the phone. That is my 2 cents. Good luck!
2006-07-10 20:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by amazonbia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. I think I would find out what her phone number is through email to her.. then call her up and ask her personally. I am a bit old fashion and of course older than dirt. But nothing is better to m, than to have the person.. personally ask me. E-mail is great.. but its not personal enough to suit my taste. Good Luck
2006-07-10 20:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don;t ask a girl out in email.
If you have her email address and not her phone number, then you need to talk with her, get to know her, find common interests that are cool and talk about them. When she is ready, she will *ask* you to call her, and give her your number. Then you are ready to talk on the phone. Do the same thing, but one the phone (get to know her, get to be her friend.)
Then she will tell you (on the phone) to meet her, and ask you to take her someplace.
Take it slow, instead of rushing things, and you will get the reward of a great friend who wants you.
2006-07-10 20:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Atom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is that you find someone that you can hang out with and spend time with not by e-mail...These things work out best face to face not over the phone or Internet....
2006-07-10 20:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by newyorkcitypimp1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, ask her out. What do you use most to communicate with her? IM, email or myspace? That should be the format to use.
2006-07-10 20:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by tbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should email her or contact her on Myspace and ask for her screenname, and if you already know it, then IM her. It would be sort of random to just email her and be like "Would you be interested in going out with me?" Talk to her a little first, so you can see if she really does like you, and if she does, it's all downhill from there (or uphill, should I say? Idk, lol) ^_^
2006-07-10 20:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHHH, DON'T ask her out by email. What an awful way to do it. Ask her out in person if all else fails. If you do ask her out over email, she will get the impression that you are either shy, stupid, or just won't go out with you.
2006-07-18 23:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋