Ok. I have always done pretty ok with women when I'm in shape. Mostly just sex, thats all they ever seem to want from me. I got out of shape and had some things come up and basically women treated me like crap. Now that I have the health issues cleared up I'm more serious and want to look at a more stable relationship but it seems women just want sex from me again now that my body is back... thats it. I know some guys would kill to have this problem but after abot 300+ lovers Im burnt out. Is ther a certain type of man that you just look at for sex only. I think I have been stereotyped or classsisified and well it sucks. I have lost a lot of respect for women as a result.
2006-07-10 13:10:23 · 16 answers · asked by elmerjay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u need to find a different type of woman for u. what kind of women do you date? barbie dolls??? material girls??? sluts??? if you want more than just sex then go for classy chicks and women who have dreams ... women who want what u want
2006-07-10 13:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by dvl_n_dskyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that you have noticed that the women who keep a guy around for awhile are the ones that hold off on the sex for a little bit anyway. As hard as it is to stop when a gorgeous woman is looking at you with lust in her eyes, stop. Don't give these women a one night stand if that is what they want. Make them work for it and in the process get to know them. That is how the vast majority of real relationships happen. I am not telling you to just not have sex ever again, but the women that are worth being with for a serious relationship will respect your wish to develop that relationship rather than just go at it like rabbits.
2006-07-10 13:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Brandi A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to tell us all that you are "so hot" that you were able to have 300+ lovers? Frankly, I am not buying it...Not all women want sex only from a man. There are some of us who not only want a relationship but a friend as well with our boyfriends. Oh please. You say that you have lost respect for women as a result of all of your "affairs" and I am certain you have given women a reason to lose respect when they meet you since you sound like a boy toy to be played with.
2006-07-10 13:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a "striaght chick" could it be that that is the b=vibe that you are sending out to women that y ou just want to have sex with them hav eyou ever tried going on a few dates with the SAME girl... Also it could be the type of girl that you are attracted to... Also look for women other than a bar or a club that is the worse place to look for a girl... look for women just make sure that y ou lay it down on the table you want a serious realtionship and the last thing you should do is fall head over heels for the first decent girl that you meet take y our time in dating not just sex get to know the women
2006-07-10 13:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by nikkig813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the probablem with your situation is that you are willing to bed this women too. If you don't want just sex why don't you persue a conversation rather than a roll in the sack. Ohhh...300+. C'mon, now you're just exasgerating. Anyways, good luck.
2006-07-10 13:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking for the WRONG women. You need to choose women who you have not normally chosen. For instance, are you picking up your women from a bar? That is where one goes for sex or a relationship based on such. Another thing I would suggest, be the brakes in the relationship. If a woman suggests sex -- that is your cue that she is a ..."bicycle seat".
2006-07-10 13:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by enigmatic12be 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you had no respect in the first place. 300+???Damn! I think its the type of girls you get with. I know I would take any man serious, unless he has somehow gave me signs that all he wants is sex. Try not to have sex with them so darn fast, and take time to get to know them, then it will happen. Try waiting after 10 dates with the girl. Get to know her first. It'll work.
2006-07-10 13:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those women are shallow if that's all they wanted. No offense to you at all, but I'm sure you're a great person. When you meet someone, just give them your personallity, not your body. If you do meet a woman if you want to eventually later on take it to the next level, just tell her you want to wait. If she's not okay with that..then there's more fish in the sea.
2006-07-10 13:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by truelovexo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your personality sucks but you have a great bod, then yeah, women will just use you for sex. Women want to be in steady relationships with men who they can trust and who will be there for them.
2006-07-10 13:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. papi, all I can say is that you should try to find other girls that will respect you and not just want you for sex. Also, don't lose respect for all women, they do have us ladies out there!
2006-07-10 13:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by louisianadimepiece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋