I am wondering if it is bad for an 18 year old girl to have never gone to a club. Would guys not like that a girl does not like to go to nightclubs? What would guys think about this? What would be better, to go or not to go?
2006-07-10 12:50:55 · 45 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not to go. i like girls who are innocent, maybe because i have high standards. but it also depends on the guy and what he likes. i think it's more better for a girl to not have attended a nightclub because it appeals to the guy that you're high class.
2006-07-10 12:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience - it is not a "bad" thing if you do not go "clubbing." There are a great deal of other things out there in the world that are three times as much fun and productive to spend your time doing. Instead of spending two hours in front of the mirror to go to a club and spend your time dancing with a beer bottle in your hand, you could be spending your time engaged in an extra circular activity that would get you noticed by colleges and businesses (depending no the activity) or just hanging out in the park with your friends.
Do you also want to know a secret? I have yet to meet a guy that truly likes and respects a "fun girl" as person. "Fun girls" are the types of girls that guys date for a short periods of time, but would never take home to meet Mom, Dad, Sis, Bro, and Dog.
I am twenty-four-year-old and still would prefer to spend my time in the park, the mall, or at home (watching a movie rental) with my friends than going to the club, getting wasted.
2006-07-10 13:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by moonguardianluna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking "what would be the reasons for a Senior to be interested in a Freshman girl" means that you already pretty much know the answer - don't you? I dated a couple of Seniors when I was a Freshman, I had friends that did the same. When I was a Senior and had a lot of male friends, they dated some Freshman. I know exactly why they are interested. Because Freshman girls are usually young and impressionable. They are new on the scene and don't have any of the bad information about them that all of the Sophomores, Juniors, and Seniors know about them. They basically think they can take advantage of them. You're instincts are right on. Find someone else - someone closer to your own age.
2016-03-27 00:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Norine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is actually very good that an 18 year old has never been to a club. It's all hipe! You are not missing anything. There is a 90% chance that you will not find a quality man in a nightclub. A man who is seriously seeking a real girlfriend will not look for her in a club. He prefers that she is NOT a club goer...for real. So, you done good, kid! Keep it up!
2006-07-10 12:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Author Al 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's totally fine that you have not gone to a nightclub.
1) Nightclubs that let in people under 21 are LAME.
2) Nightclubs are abound dancing and showing off, most guys do not like either.
3) Nightclubs are an expensive way to see the same losers over and over again.
2006-07-10 12:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with not going to nightclubs, they aren't for everyone. I don't much like that kinda thing either. I have gone on occassion but I prefer other types of atmospheres. it's really up to you , if you don't like the clubbing atmosphere then don't go. If you tend to drink a lot in clubs, you can lose your faculties and do things you wouldn't normally do. like the old saying about gnawing your arm off thats under her head to keep from waking her up. you are only looking for a guy, not guys, don't give a shyt what guys think. worry about what your new guy will think if he sees you in a club.
2006-07-10 12:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nightclubs are more for the 21+ crowd because of the alcohol. I dont think it would matter or not if a guy would like you if you didnt go or what. A guy is looking for booty so he probably doesnt even care about that. I'd say not to go because that will bring you to crowds you arent ready for like the older crowd.
2006-07-10 12:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not bad at all..........Personally I didnt want to party with the "teenagers" I waited until my 21st birthday...........
Too many people kill the experience before they even get a chance to get in the club and enjoy.............So if you're not ready dont feel pressured...........there is plenty of time and plenty of clubs.............trust you arent missing anything........
No rush its an experience you want to be ready for or else you wont enjoy it...............
I have a cousin turned 21 in November and still hasn't gone .........she's just not ready.........
although its not that big a deal but nonetheless when you are ready you will go...........
If a man judges you by whether you've been to a club or not he's not worth your time anyway because obviously his mind is only set on partying and he has nothing more to offer................
2006-07-10 12:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by CaliCutie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a guy and I HATE nightclubs. And if I was still dating I would be happy to find a girl who didnt like clubs beause I would never have to take her to one.
2006-07-10 12:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure they will, if you meet people in nightclubs you are most likely to meet nightclub, drinking, partying people and if that isn't what you want don't go. in the state i'm from you aren't allowed in clubs until you are 21 anyway. i'm sure a lot of guys would appreciate a girl that isn't in to the 'bar scene'.
2006-07-10 12:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋