Is it wrong not to wanting to talk to your mother?

Question

Is it wrong not to talk to your mother because she is to much drama and is always bringing negativity in your life?

I like talking to my mother....I was just wondering if it was "wrong" not to.
A lot of ppl feel that they have some kind of obligation to their parents and I think different.

Answer 1

Looking back at some of your other questions (I wanted to get an idea how old you were and what stage of life you were in) I notice that you are having issues with your mother-in-law as well as your mother. It worries me that you seem to want to cut out all the older women in your life. I'm guessing you don't have kids yet, but when you do, these women will the the grandmothers of your children, and you don't want to burn bridges. Even though you're married, maybe you haven't finished growing up yet, because I sense a lot of teenage-type rebellion. Maybe you and your husband both have duds for mothers, but make sure you look at yourself and your own attitude. Do you feel threatened and criticized when you are offered advice? Do you feel you still have to "prove" something to your mother? Moms always offer advice, because that's what they do. You can listen politely and then do what you want because YOU'RE AN ADULT. Mom knows that, but the mom impulse doesn't turn off just because your kids grow up. Just like you need to show respect to your mother-in-law, you need to show respect to your mom. My mother used to drive me crazy, but when I became a mom myself, I began to understand all that she had done for me. Unless your mother has been immoral or abusive, don't cut her out of your life. You don't have to talk to her 10 times a day, but don't stop talking to her.

Answer 2

I will try to answer this, but your writing is horrible and I cannot understand your question. Do you and your mother live in the same house? Well, if so, you will have to talk to her some time, you know? Sometimes there are people we just do not want to talk to, and NO ONE should try to force us. I am sure that you have a good reason for not wanting to talk to your mom, but like I said, if you live in the same house, you will have to sooner or later.

Answer 3

You must have good reason!

But, since you asked, I think YOU must be
troubled over the situation & lack of communication~

So why not initiate a new mature relationship with your
Mother! You'll never regret it ...

Love is the excelling way ...it never fails

Answer 4

It happens all the time, to kids and their moms, even when one is grown up. But she did give birth to you, and raised you.
So just try to work things out. Remember she will be your mother for the rest of your and her life.
So get over being mad at her, she is just thinking of your best interests.

Answer 5

if you don't talk to your mother think if you had a friend not talking to your mother and she asked you for advice what have told her see love is like a lilly pad it keeps on flowing love your mother she will be worth it in the end

Answer 6

Now why would that be? Your mother is usually the best person for advise and good at listening to your questions. At least that is how it is in my experience.

Answer 7

It's wrong not to talk to your mother. It's wrong not to want to talk to your mother. I don't know if you asked that, but okay.

Answer 8

nope no obligation...

I have not spoken a word to my mother in over 12 years....

Yep I miss having a mum around... just not my mum...

Answer 9

If she is a negative influence in your life then to it is not wrong

Answer 10

In most cases I would say it was wrong - depends on the circumstances.