on sunday night. she was on vacation but still near our houses so i came over so we could talk. so we were on a break and over that vacation she met a new guy they "dated" for a week then he broke up with her. the whole time i missed her soooooooooo much i called her twice but i wasnt like stocking her. after they broke up she wants me back but idk is that something i should do. dont get me wrong i love her to death but i feel like the rebound. should i just forget it ever happened or what. what would u do.? also the guy she "dated" and her are still friends and there hanging out like all the time is that something i should be worried about??
2006-07-10 11:55:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but im not that worried about the guy cuz i think shes mostly hanging out with him cuz like 3 days after they met the boys brother died and they both feel really bad about it cuz they could have prevented it. and btw im 18 shes 16 and weve been dating for 13 months
2006-07-10 12:00:14 · update #1
the break started sunday and she met him monday so it wasnt like she broke up with me for him. he was probebly just a vaca fling but they live like almost next door and didnt no it which kinda sucks for me. a little.
2006-07-10 12:02:41 · update #2
more than likely he was just the rebound and she found out that she really loved you yes it's normal for them to be friends if you love her take her back but tell her how you feel
2006-07-10 11:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by arkansasgirl02071981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I've been here before and I was the other guy. I became friends with a girl who was in a relationship but then broke up or took a break so we can date. We dated, we enjoyed our company a lot but we just didn't have a connection sexualy. We slept together twice and it was kind of an unspoken thing but I think we both agreed without actualy talking about it that we just weren't compatible in bed, it happens :( We remained friends and I think she may be back with her ex. So... I think anyone who breaks up or takes a break is probably not entirly happy or satisfied with their current relationship, they are looking for someone else to fill a void of some type and I am sorry to say but she may be just settling for you. So... ask yourself, do you want to be someone's #1 or just someone she settles for?
2006-07-10 19:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by glp112473 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she asked for the "break" that usually means "break up", but if she is coming back to you that could mean that she really just needed to take some time, try other things, see if she would miss you. Apparently she does. But, that is a pretty short time so I would be concerned about ulterior motives.
As for other dude, if they "date" for a week then "break up" but still are seeing one another, they are probably just fooling around and she is telling you horse s#!t to keep you in her bag. Yes that is something to worry about and you need to ask her for the truth.
From the language you use it sounds like you are pretty young so just do what your gut tells you, you will date dozens and dozens more girls in your life time so try not to sweat it!
2006-07-10 19:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by timdog1210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off it sounds like she met this guy while you two were dating..and then she thought she found something better and went with this guy...and for whatever reason he broke it off with her...she thinks she can Walt back into your life like nothing happened or like she made a mistake...well shes right about one thing..she made a mistake leaving for another....so if i were you...i wouldn't take her back...if you take her back..it only shows that your weak to her and that she can continue this way and you will always take her back no matter what....so i say..make it be known that your not going to be played that way...and say tough love to her...she made her choice and now that it backfired on her..she has to live with her decision....its for the best...
2006-07-10 19:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by raven wants it... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's put it this way: Like all business transactions, you better leave yourself a really good OUT clause. This union is turning sour. Just watch yourself. Take care of yourself.
2006-07-10 19:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her to go screw herself. I wouldnt bother with that. A break to date soemone else is a break up. not a break. a break is a break like need sometime to themselves not to date other people. I'd tell her no.
2006-07-10 19:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by evie_cooper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude she is playing you find a women who will appreciate a real man she is not worth it she will string you along as long as you let her
2006-07-10 19:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋