they said they were staying in a hotel. we do not get along together. i am upset that they did not ask first if it is ok with us to stay over. how to i get them to stay somewhere else? i feel it is very rude to invite yourself to stay overnight with someone.
please help!
2006-07-10 11:52:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
they are going to be staying for a week!
2006-07-10 11:59:48 · update #1
i will also be 8 months pregnant and not wanting to entertain.
2006-07-10 12:25:14 · update #2
this is what i wrote to them:
It will be very nice to see you all in August, I am looking forward to the Baby Shower.
As far as staying at the house, I feel you all may be more comfortable at a hotel. We do not anticipate being set up to have guests, let alone overnight guests, for some time. We are working hard on trying to change that, and with any luck, we will be able to have guests over.
2006-07-10 12:32:43 · update #3
u go rent a room for self and tell them they can have the house
2006-07-10 11:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by baltimore_queene 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are your parents, so my suggestion is to stick it out through one night, that's all it is, no biggie...
They are probably being very nice to you and renting you the house at a low price, and if that's not the case, then get a hotel room for them (or you) and find a new place to live so you dont have to deal with this later on.
2006-07-10 18:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by Deja Entendu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are paying rent, you are not obligated to let them stay with you. Tell them you're sorry, but them staying at your house would be a major inconvience for you and ask them to get a hotel instead.
2006-07-10 18:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your first mistake was to rent from your parents if you don't want them in you life, and its not rude to stay with a child for one or two days when visiting, It would be rude of you not to invite them to stay. Most parents don't want to live with there children.
2006-07-10 18:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's your parents and you're renting from them. You're screwed. I would say that you should make the best of it. Anyone else, I would politely let them know that you won't be able to have them stay with you. Sorry.
2006-07-10 18:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it's their place and you're renting it from them, if they decide to move in then you should not be obligated to pay rent.
You're guests in their house then.
2006-07-10 18:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by J.D. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you're sorry but you're not prepared to have in-house company at this time, but you'll be happy to refer them to a nearby hotel.
And yes, it is rude to invite yourself to stay with someone.
2006-07-10 18:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are your parents....not just friends...you could try to get along with them for just one night.
2006-07-10 18:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not view this as an opporunity to change things?
Prepare a simple meal & eat together...
After offering "Thanks" (grace) what could go wrong?
2006-07-10 19:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Merry 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you can rent from them , perhaps you should move and rent from others...that way you can tell them not to come!!
2006-07-10 18:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋