For the gentlemen, what would make a guy have such a strong reaction to a girl?

Question

I am looking for analytical answers. I had a situation where a guy seem to over react to me. It seemed like he was projecting what he assumed I might be feeling onto me. Which left me really confused because I was like what the hey? For ex., I gave a christmas party and I extended the invitation to him, gave him my phone number, he never called or showed up. So I figured he wasn't that interested right! Dissappointed but not angry.The following Monday he sees me and instead of apologizing he just starts yelling, "oh so now your not going to talk to me me because I didn't come to your party", I never said a word I was completely shocked by his reaction, so when I didn't respond(by the way we use to work for the same company), he grabs my arm in an aggressive manner. I just snatched it back and walked away. I was embarrassed for him because he could not see the managers that were standing behind him. But this wasn't the only time he had behaved like this. What makes a guy behave this way

Answer 1

Ummm....not taking his medication?

Answer 2

it's not just one thing. He has multiple personality disorders. First, OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder). The reaction is classic for someone who obsessed over the situation for hours and hours before approaching you. He took a lot of time building up his (false) idea of what you were thinking, feeling, etc.
Second, paranoia. All the time he was obsessing over you, he assumed you were also obsessing over him. ("Projection" is one of the technical terms for this.
Third, low self-esteem, to the point of self-loathing. He assumed you felt he wasn't worth even talking to because HE feels he isn't worth even talking to.
There are several issues going on as well, including antisocial behavior, anger managment issues, etc. probably schitzophrenia and psychosis, as well, though he's still rational enough to keep those in check.

Bottom line... he may mask his behavior in public, but he is extremely dangerous. Never put yourself in a situation alone with this guy. Ever. He's not over the edge yet, but when he goes... life will be at risk.

Answer 3

for Gentleman? I thought the question was directed at me specificaly =P well I'm sorry but I have no clue this is not the sort of behaviour that is general to sex, (as if I were to ask why a girl never showed up when I called her everyday to make sure she would, most girls would tell me why! =P) but this guy he's just one of those odd human beings that no one can understand. He needs help

Answer 4

he would be classified as a real jerk and someone that you need to get away from as soon as possible. If he is a co - worker he should not EVER grab you like that. That is physical and sexual harrassment.
There is no real explanation to why he would act that way except that he has some real social issues, is highly possessive and not very confident. Realizing that, some guys get very introverted while others, like this jerk, get very aggressive to try to compensate.

Answer 5

Ooookkkk. He sounds crazy, and not in a good way, stay away from him.

Answer 6

Umm, PSYCHO...

Answer 7

Psy - Co!!!