i've known him for 2 years, he has been dating her for a month and a half, i started to love him 6 months ago and thought at times he might feel the same way, but there is something holding him back, now he told me he is going to propose to her this weekend!!!
2006-07-10 11:49:54 · 30 answers · asked by kentuckygrown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well.. if he's sure he wants to be with her then too bad for you.. but if you feel he might like you that way then he needs to find out what he truly wants before hurting himself and his gf.. good luck
2006-07-10 11:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you really feel. That is the only way that you will ever be able to get any peice of mind. And if he is a true friend this will do nothing to hinder your friendship....Oh you might also take him to a site that has marital statistics on it and show him how often people stay together that have only known each other as long as they have.
2006-07-10 11:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by texas_kali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound as if he's gay - that's one hurtle your never gonna get over - if you were the same sex as the person he was going to propose to then I would tell you to do something - but not even that's going for you
on the otherside - he sounds stupid asking a girl to marry him 2 months into a relationship - what's the rush???
2006-07-10 11:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by ryandebraal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless I'm reading this incorrectly (always possible), I think what you've got is a good heterosexual friend who wasn't necessarily returning romantic feelings for you (hence the ambiguity), and he's now showing his true colors (for lack of a better term).
Mind you, he's not just looking to date this girl, or to hook up with her...he's talking about proposing to her to be wed in matrimony. I don't know this guy, but that doesn't sound to me like the volitional choice of a guy who is mixed up about his hetersexuality.
Sorry to have to be so blunt, but that's my take on it.
2006-07-10 11:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG leave him alone just because you have chosen that lifestyle don't try to bring him down with you if you are any kind of friend you will let him enjoy his women and not impose your feelings on him he has already proposed to her which means he loves her not you you are being selfish it is his choice and if you can not be happy for him get out of his life no one needs that drama!
2006-07-10 11:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you are gay? If he's in love enough with the lady to marry her, I would suggest looking elsewhere for a boyfriend. I have straight friends that I'm attracted to also, but nothing could ever happen.
2006-07-10 11:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by bumwiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who was gay, he was in the same boat as you. I told him to tell him how he felt and all the details. The other guy didn't tell his g.f. right away about him turning gay and one day he told her about his gay friend who he has been seeing and broke it of with her. Last I heard they were still together. They have been together for 5yrs.
2006-07-10 11:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Pahoua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say NOTHING. He really loves her if he is proposing to her. If you really love him let him do what he wants. You will gain nothing of it. You will interfer with his life and make things uncomfortable between him annd you. Look for some other gay dude.
2006-07-10 11:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by SuNsHiNe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch a bus for San Francisco. You'll soon forget about that boy. Keep in touch and maybe he will follow you. Whatever you do, get the hell out of Kentucky!
2006-07-10 11:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off.......proposing to someone after only 1 1/2 months of dating, seems to be mighty quick, and hopefully it doesn't scare her away.
Also, if you love you, you'll want him to be happy. If he is happy with his girlfriend, then live and let live.
2006-07-10 11:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋