i like a girl and i need help i dont want to mess up on our first date?

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Answer 1

First thing - calm down! If you go to pick her up and you're already freaked that the date won't work out, you can bet it won't. Starting with one of her favorite movies is a good idea -- she'll enjoy it and you won't have to be worried about too much conversation if you're shy about that. When it comes to conversation, ask her a lot of questions about herself -- interests, some details about her job if she works, favorite music, band, etc. -- and add compliments (not too many - just occassionally) -- when she gives you her answers (you'll know where to fit these in - give yourself some credit!) You sound like a wonderful guy who really cares about making this first date special -- you've already shown you're half-way there to a great first date!
Best wishes -- you'll do just fine!

Answer 2

What you do is make sure you project to her some thing that you are not. She will enjoy finding out later that you lied to her and was just a fake. It is the only way to impress a woman. Hell they will believe anything right? Sad to say but it is true that most men think that way and I found a lot of women will tell you they are 102 pounds and 22 years old and when you meet them they are more like 201 pounds and 44 years old. If you are young enough that you have to ask this question you need to just play the fields. So be who ever you like. It don't matter anyway. Right?

Dummy just be yourself if you plan to keep her.

Answer 3

Be yourself, don't be too forward. Don't try to kiss her, let her make the first move. Don't lie--at all, she WILL find out. Us women have really good Sherlock Holms skills, if you know what I mean... Don't check out other women either, that can end it. Shower right before the date, but don't let her see you with your hair wet or she'll think you waited til the last minute to take a shower. Make sure you don't stink, use some cologne, but not too much, thats nasty, and don't try to get too sweaty, do wear deodorant. Be a gentleman, don't burp and fart and don't play with your cell-phone or gameboy, she'll think you're texting to your friends bragging, about her (that she's just being used to impress your friends)

Whoa gotta go, there'll be more later I hope.... We'll see

Answer 4

The above comments are great and never ask "front seat or back seat" or try to kiss her till she kisses you.

Open the door for her (car, restaurant), compliment (but don't overdo it) on her dress, give her flowers, maintain eye contact and let her talk. When you are dropping her off, walk her to the door. Remember to say "Goodnight". You will be surprised at how many people forget. Simple things matter a lot to a woman. They have a knack of remembering that.

LOL!!! On my first date with this one girl, I had to carry her across a puddle. I thought that was funny. :)

Answer 5

Dude, just RELAX. Be yourself. If you weren't yourself to begin with, she wouldn't have said yes to going out with you in the first place. And if you do mess something up, laugh about it. Some girls like a guy who can poke fun at himself and won't take things too seriously. Good luck!

Answer 6

If your worried about it your off to a good start. Take her some where that you feel comfortable. If your all tense and worried that will show through. Be relaxed and just have a good time. Go somewhere that there are others, it wont be so intimidating. Then get her drunk.. it always helps.

Answer 7

just be yourself...bcuz its U shes supposed to like...and dont worry if u already have plans for a date...she said yes for a reason...just try not to make an *** of yourself...cuz u know how u can get with ur guy friends...just play it kool...but be yourself at the same time...and dont check other girls out!!! when u see her compliment what she is wearing...like "wow u look great!"...or what ever U would say...but the biggest thing is b urself

Answer 8

Don't bathe for the week before your date. Also remember to eat lots of onions. Don't brush your teeth or put on cologne either. Make sure you don't pay for dinner or the movie. She's going to love that. And make sure you stuff a ton of popcorn in your mouth before kising her. Best date ever.

Answer 9

Compliments are great.
Do alot of 'meta-talk', as in: Boy I must seem very nervous/clutz/spaz. I hope I'm not being too blunt.
Don't talk with your mouth all the time. You can talk with your eyes you know.

And try to notice hints, I mis em all the time.

Answer 10

Make sure you are clean and have fresh breath. Oh and don't talk about just yourself. Ask her about her and LISTEN to what she is saying. Good eye contact helps too. Bring her flowers!!!