my husband like sexy chatting girls when i saw him he swear that he will never do that again but he continue do it but in hidden places & swear that he dont do that when i catch him in asexy chatting he told me that he hated me becuse i always keep an eye on him & if i do any thing he will divorce me i am realy in a big pain ilove him very much how can i get him back we have three children & i cant live with him i always wishto die please help me dont tell me talk to him he dont want to hear my voice again
2006-07-10 11:26:17 · 12 answers · asked by bella b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh dear lord! first of all give him space first. he is a guy and u have to face the fact that he will want to look at other woman. but if u feel like he is doing something like hooking up or sex chatting talk to him. tell him how u loe him. also one reson why he might be doing this is because your love life is loosing a spark. spice your saturdays up. go out with as a family and then always stay connected and do your stuff. alwasy find trust witin each other. if u feel that he is going the wrong way then talk, the last thing im sure u dont want is a divorce because u have children so first give him room to breathe but if u feel he is changing, coming home late sneak o to the computer a check wat he is up to if it gets that far. much love and wish u the best.
2006-07-10 11:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about you, i dont know about you, and I know nothing about you... Confused ???
Right!! Thats exactly what I felt when I read your Q.
If I get you right, you dont like him chatting with sexy women online and he loves it ???
Honestly, I would not blame him, you are so confused because of the issue that you have thrown all reasonable thoughts to the winds.
Well, if it is any consolation, the 'sexy chatting girls' could be some 40 year old fat sweating naked guy on a free AOL connection.
And try and inject some sence and realisation in to him that when you are around, he would not need to sweat it out online.
Lure him back.
Sexy lingerie would work.
2006-07-10 11:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't respect that this hurts your feelings and he doesn't care enough about the relationship to stop, I wonder how much more of this you will be able to stand.
I am assuming your sex life is hindered because of all this? If you're having problems in the bedroom you guys probably need to get professional counseling.
2006-07-10 11:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorcing him sounds like the best thing to do for you and your children. if you dont, only more pain will come when he hooks up with one of these girls that he is chatting to
2006-07-10 12:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to put up with his "chatting" then tell him so.
If he will not take your calls then stop by his house wearing something really sexy. get a tan, a new outfit and have your hair done. leave the kids with a babysitter. he'll be willing to talk.
2006-07-10 11:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by ilovedragonflies6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so crazy about someone who apparently isn't crazy about you? Get rid of this jerk, and allow yourself to get out there and maybe meet someone who'll treat you right and be true to you.
He's not a very kewl person...don't lower yourself to sticking with someone who cares so little about his wife, the mother of his kids...know that you deserve better, and go forth and find it!
2006-07-10 11:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant beat`em,
Join them
2006-07-10 11:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might need a new mate.
2006-07-10 11:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by robert p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his *** to the curb!
2006-07-10 11:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by Firefighter EMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DIVORCE HIS @SS! you don't need him you can do bad by yourself!
2006-07-10 11:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by leo29sexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋