Should I ask this girl out?(read info)?

Question

OK so I've liked this one girl for about 8 months now, and before about 3 weeks ago, it was just a minor crush. We've continued to become better friends and have been friends actually for about 5 years now. I just started to really fall for her with in the last few weeks. I don't know why either, but you know the feeling- I dream about her, can't stop thinking bout her, all this stuff, but there's a problem. She's been dating someone else for the last 7 months. And i dont' want to tell her i'm attracted, because it might ruin our relationship. What do i do?

i posted this about 3 hrs ago, n' didn't get many answers, so figured i'd try again

Answer 1

I have had the same boyfriend for 4 years now who I really love. Anyways, about 10 months into our relationship one of my guy friends confessed he liked me more than a friend. I nicely turned him down but it was really awkward after that and we slowely stopped talking. 3 years later we aren't friends anymore. Anywho, if this chick is happy in her current relationship you shouldn't confess your feelings because it will just make things awkward for her. If you can tell she doesn't really like her boyfriend than I would go for it, she might still feel awkward if she doesn't have the same feelings for u but that's a chance u gotta take if u really want her. A way you can tell if she really isn't into her boyfriend is if she complains about him to u or seems sad around her boyfriend...I dunno but u will be able to tell.

Answer 2

Step 1.
Make sure about her feelings about the the other guy.
Step 2.
Go ahead. Go for her.
Doesn't matter her answer.

Like the Nike's slogan: JUST DO IT.

It's the only way to know her feelings about the most important person: YOU.

Answer 3

Continue being her friend and hope she loses the b/f.

Answer 4

No, search for somebody fresh.

http://www.daylon.com/dating/