My girlfriend acts the sex is not good to her anymore what should I do?

Answer 1

If there is a problem or think that there maybe a problem you should ask her and see what is going on. COMMUNICATION is always the key.

Answer 2

Change up the routine. Try some new positions. What worked for me is that I started to flirt with my boyfriend during the day via email and text messages. We wouldn't call each other on the phone for the whole day. Then by the time we saw each other in person, we were both so hot for each other that the sex seemed that much better. There are plenty of books that can help you have better sex. Find an adult book store in your area and get some books for the two of you to read together.

Answer 3

Ask her if there is something she would like to try or something she really enjoys that maybe you used to do but have since stopped doing some times men slip off when they get comfortable with their woman and forget the little things that usto drive them wild....And if she says that you just arent satisfieing to her anymore then try a lil romance if that fails then cut your loses and tell her good bye...Good Luck

Answer 4

Try new things, If that dosent work maybe it is time to move on to a new girl. If you were to be married then what will life be for the next 50 years with a sexless relationship. Talk to her and find out what yall are missing

Answer 5

Talk to her. Ask her what is going on. If you can lay down with her and have sex....you should be able to talk to her about what is going on in her life.

When you approach her....don't do in while you are trying to get some.....have this talk sitting at a table...facing each other, looking into her eyes, holding her hands. Tell her how much you care about her and that you have noticed some changes in her and want to talk about them...you want to know if there is anything you can help her with.

Answer 6

Find out why. Maybe she is under a lot of stress or doesn't feel well, which then needs to be addressed. I really doubt that all of a sudden she just doesn't enjoy you anymore, unless there is trouble in your relationship, which you would know about. Talk to her about it.

Answer 7

How long have you been in this relationship and is there more to it than the sexual side? Are feelings involved on your side or hers? Do you do anything besides have sex? Go out, walk together, see movies, or other fun activities?

Discuss it. Fix it. Or leave it.

Answer 8

That's how they get you, lore you in with sex then cut it off all together. Or she may just be getting bored with you. Get some of those sex education tapes on love making. You might learn some new moves.

Answer 9

Ask her what she wants. Ask her what her fantasies are. Try little things like massages before you try anything sexual. Once in a while try just kissing her and massaging her and then just hold her. Then she will be having her needs met and be more willing to have sex and you both will enjoy it more :)

Answer 10

Ask her does she have any ideas or fantasies that she wants to try. OR you can try to incorporate toys or food (like whip cream) or edible powders into your sex (if you haven't already). You could try to have sex in different places (like outside, in the car, etc). If you usually initiate sex, have her initiate it, or vice versa. You have lots of options, just be creative. Try different positions. Good Luck~

Answer 11

Could it be stress? Try to spice things up a little, and talk to her. This is only a concern if it's lasting more than 2 weeks also.