I went wit my best friend to one of her friends house there was two guys and one was hitting on me all night he got to drinking and i did a lil and we went into a room and started making out i didnt stop him then it got to crazy so i told him to stop should i tell my bf? honestly it wasnt something i wanted to do it was kinda against my will ya know.. and he cheated on me once and i forgave him but his story wasnt as bad and at least he cared enough to tell me right??
2006-07-10 10:56:40 · 26 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget it. what he doesnt know wont hurt him.....and it wont happen again, right? right?!?!
2006-07-10 10:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest..until a couple is at least engaged, I'm not sure that it really qualifies as "cheating". Why play this game at a time at your life when you're supposed to be socializing and learning about different people. Fine...have a special guy/gal you like being with more than others, but you're not married. Don't limit yourself with commitments you can't keep and shouldn't be making. As far as I'm concerned, be honest about the fact you may see another person. But you don't have to tell them the details. When the time and the relationship are right, both will have no desire to be with anyone else. There's no need to make promises because that's not what is supposed to keep you faithful. It's the desire to be with only one person.
If he asks, don't lie. But there's no reason to volunteer it either. Take the pressure off each other and simply agree that there may be times you will be with someone else and it will remain that way until you get engaged or live together.
2006-07-10 11:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your own fault that you have lost him, however long it was either way you cheated on him. if you think telling him it was just one second long will make him forgive you and want you back then just tell him. but tbh i think you are better off finding someone else, as he will only still be hurting and wont trust you. you are only fourteen its not as if you were gunna marry the guy. learn from your mistake so that when you find the very right person you dont end up losing them again. but i really think trying to get him back is a bad idea because there willl just be no trust. find someone else and let him find someone who wont cheat and will make him happy. and also it is pretty easy to turn your head away or back away when some guy goes in to kiss you. and you have a hand to slap them away. next time use your brain.
2016-03-27 00:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to break up with you then go right ahead. Or if you guys really love each other, which is obviously wrong cause you wouldn't have cheated on him, then he'll forgive you. Also if you want to be truthful then feel free to tell him! Be prepared for a bad mood if he's that type.
2006-07-10 11:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your bf. Your conscience will only bother you. Unfortunately you risk the chance of him not being as forgiving as you were when he cheated on you. Personally I think it was a way of getting back at him for doing the same to you.
2006-07-10 11:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you love him it is best that the truth be told. Tell him everything. If that guy didnt stop and he raped you, you should go to the police. but remember there are several fish in the sea.
2006-07-10 11:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by jzubov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if it was against your will you should have reported it but if you didnt then you was for it, so be ready when you tell your bf because he may dump you and if you care for him you wouldnt have never even thought about that should have stop it from the get go!!
2006-07-10 11:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. I am pretty sure he wont trust with that girl or wont trust you when you drink. It shouldn't have even gotton to the point where ya'll were in the room together. Sweety I would tell him exactly what happen.
2006-07-10 11:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didn't make out with someone then he didn't cheat and second of all you only do what you want to do and alcohol is not an excuse you are still aware of what is going on only your reaction time is slower
2006-07-10 11:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by rcrenzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and yes u should tell him because if you really like him u would tell him. and he will forgive u tell him exactly what you told us. Dont listen to what everyone else has to say. Follow your heart and opinions.
2006-07-10 11:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by babiedoll9264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if dis is da first time and u realli regret it and its mistake ad u dunt think he will forgive you and u luv him and think if u tell him hell break ^ with you and dunt think hell find out... then no cuz everybodi makes mistakes nobodis perfect but if dis isint da first time ad u feel maybe he might forgive u its da ryt thing then u shuld tell him da truth becuz its good to b truthful in relationships and if dis isint da first time he deserves to kno and u deserve to get dumped
2006-07-10 11:01:11 · answer #11 · answered by KiKi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋