i have been with someone for going on 10 months, and we have trouble with the way we communicate with each other. im in love with this person, and want to work it out, but the emotional ups and downs and arguments are tiring and difficult. any others who have been through something similar?
2006-07-10 10:54:48 · 14 answers · asked by susieq 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The short answer is no.
The longer answer is to say that if the issues you face now cannot be resolved, the relationship will ultimately end anyhow. Communication is central to sharing time with another person. It doesn't matter how much you love and care for another person, if you cannot resolve the issue of communicating your thoughts, wants, needs, dreams, desires, and feelings, then your days together are numbered.
2006-07-10 10:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by www.ayntk.blogspot.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Communication is the MOST IMPORTANT thing in a relationship.
If you are finding it difficult, despite the optimism, your relationship is destined to fail.
I have been through the same, but we eventually started communicating a lot better and more frequently.
Pointers for you:
This relationship will fail. Reason: You want to make this work, and dont want to fight. But if your guy also felt the same, then you would not be asking this question.
2006-07-10 18:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is like number one in any relationship. If you can't do that, you're pretty much screwed. I'd say try working on it; see if you can't come to some sort of compromise in the way you speak to each other. Give it one last ditch effort, and if that doesn't work, cut your losses.
2006-07-10 17:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by dulcetpurr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if they are willing to work on it with you. It can't be a one-way street. Communication is essential in any working relationship. If they won't work on it, do yourself a favor and move on. It isn't worth being in a disfunctional relationship and put up with that.
2006-07-10 18:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by jbunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in that situation now! But, all I can tell you is just be the best person you can be. Ask her how you can make the relationship better, and go on from there!! Good Luck!
2006-07-10 17:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by Teri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the past 2 yrs. Had to break up with him. Cant handle the ups and downs anymore. It never got better. I need some damn peace in my life.
2006-07-10 17:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's worth the struggle. To be able to see that persons smile or glimmer in their eyes. Love is a beautiful thing. When you find it, don't let it go.
2006-07-10 17:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by AngelLuv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plain and simple, if you love someone and the someone loves you back, even if you only speak chinese and he/she only speaks russian, you should stick together, youre the only ones to make eachother happy. youll work it out, sure its tiring but cmon!!! a little effort maybe???
2006-07-10 18:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by SpankmasterFlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO A SUCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP NO MATTER HOW MUCH ONE LOVES ANOTHER, GOOD LUCK
2006-07-10 18:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i had the same prob and no its not worth it if he luvs u he should be able to talk 2 u no problem
2006-07-10 17:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋