what is a good age to get married?

Answer 1

Certainly not before 23 because you want a few years to celebrate your "21 years", and I'm not just talking about the fact that you're old enough to drink and can party...you know those years where you're actually an adult now and you're forming where you fit in the world. You have to take time to really get to know yourself and your boundaries because how can you be expected to uplift someone else if you don't even know all about yourself - and situations where you are faced with choices that force you to define who you are don't even come up really until that age anyway

In the mid 20's people are usually making a carrer for themselves and getting settled into life... it'd be a good time to be in a long term relationship and really get to know each other because there are so many couples that dont really take the time to get to know each other to carry them through a marriage and kids then when all the kids grow up they're left with a spouse that they don't really know...

And of course the "when you're ready" also applies, but hopefully this will help you gage as to what ready really means..

so... even though my answer was similar to everyone elses I hope this gives you some insight as to why people are saying that. Hope this helps :)

Answer 2

Be certain the Is no good age to get married, it's when the time is right and good have set forth someone to come into your life and make that commitment with. I have been married since I was 20 and I'm 26 now. Be certain that this is someone you want a life long commitment with, some people use the commitment of marriage so loo-sly they soon be divorced, because all they want is the big beautiful day that everyone can share with them BUT, please believe everyday WILL NOT be a happy one, you may not alway get along, but at the end of the day you can still turn to that same person and feel the same way you did earlier now that REAL LOVE.

Answer 3

The age number isn´t important, now what is really important is that you are commited and willing to life your life thinking in 2 instead of only you, and this is just the settlement for thinking life with children...
Now on the other hand, some specialist believe that the better age for getting married if you´re living in the city as i suppose is for man at Earlie's 30´s (33, would be just fine, because the confidence and the physic thing...) and in a woman middle 20´s (again the physic stuff...)

Answer 4

In the United States, I would have to say that no one should get married before the age of 26.

Personally, I think getting married under the age of 21 should be punishable by death. But that's only because people are still too young and stupid (generally) before they turn 25 or 26.

Answer 5

20

Answer 6

20

Answer 7

30

Answer 8

30

Answer 9

I think it depends on your experiences. I would recommend that you date a variety of people for a few weeks or longer so that you can understand different personalities people have. Be polite and let the other person know that you are trying to determine which type of personality is best for you. I’m not advocating that you “play” people and have inappropriate activities, but rather be open and honest with yourself and your significant other. I have seen several people that have gotten married too young/early with too little experience with relationships and dealing with other peoples feelings and it is very bumpy. Also remember that people change, you change, and your opinions change. If you find someone that is absolutely perfect now, what will they be like in five years when they change? Oh yes, EVERYONE changes a little bit.

Answer 10

I got married at 19 the first time, and wouldn't recommend that. I'd say it will vary but the person should know who they are as an adult and know what they want out of life (or at least part of what they want). Probably mid-20s at the earliest (after typical college age) but around 30 might even be better...