There is someone who is in love with me, but I'm not in love with him. There is another man in my life, who happens to be and ex baby daddy. We lost our child. I am still so in love with him, but it's not recipricated back. I want my ex, not the guy who is head over heels for me. What to do?
2006-07-10 10:35:29 · 8 answers · asked by missy_scarlett2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U choose the person who ur heart truly desires. I was in the same situation. For 3-4 months my baby father n I broke up n he told me we would never be together again. it hurt for a long time but i never stopped tellin him that i loved him n i never did stop loving him. I started dating this guy who told me he was in love wit me, i dated him cuz i started givin up on my ex. Not only was i depressed at the fact that i wasnt wit my ex i was depressed that i was wit some guy that i had no feelings for at all. i tried again and again wit my ex n wen i finally gave up he came to me and asked y i was givin up. apparently the whole time we werent together he was tryin to figure out a way to be wit me but he was afraid of the fact that i had started dating someone else. DONT give up ur ex if hes the man u wanna be wit. he'll come around sooner or later. possibily later than sooner but the outcome will definantly be worth it. and if it doesnt at least u gave it a really good try.
2006-07-10 10:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by LoCa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to evaluate what is really important, you being loved or giving love. I am in a similar situation and I chose the hard route which is giving love. He doesn't openly reciprocate his love back to me as much as my other guy friend, but I love him and I can't change that. I decided I would much rather go for love and see what happens instead of settling for someone else and wondering what if. I recommend being honest with your ex and if he doesn't come around, at least you tried and now can close that relationship.
2006-07-10 10:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by Madam SupaStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your baby daddy that u r still in love with him. Then tell the other man kindly that you are not in luv with him. But first try and give the man who luves u a chance and maybe u will forget about the other guy. If it doesnt work out in 3 mnths. then u will lwt go and see if u still hae feelings for the ex- baby daddy
2006-07-10 10:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by babiedoll9264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just to close to home. I have the same problem. I still love my ex and I can't over get over him. If you don't love the other guy then you got to let him go, but in order for you to love again you have to close the past chapter. I know it hard but you have to try. I haven't found a way yet but when I do I'll let you know. If you want to talk to someone just IM me or e-mail me @ princess987mn@yahoo.com. Good Luck
2006-07-10 10:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Girl in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choosing the ex who doesn't reciprocate will not make you happy. Choosing the guy your not in to will not make you happy. You need to find someone new. But if your going to choose between the two choose the guy your not in to. He loves you and will treat you good at least. The ex will only hurt you again. There is a reason he is the ex.
2006-07-10 10:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself on your knees and ask God for guidance and stay away from both and go to counseling because that is a question that you need to understand. The best of luck because sometimes that does not work. I am talking from experience. Sometime you have to go with the one that loves you. Good luck
2006-07-10 10:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by Hoel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have faith and be strong. Meanwhile. Get to know yourself and the things you like to do. Don't look for love. Love will find you.
2006-07-10 10:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Divine_Gesture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this will help but ...never chose the one you like over the one you love because the one you like wouldn't do it for you.
2006-07-10 10:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by hiyuken_music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋