I'm bored slash/ unhappy so I'll ask you guys a whole bunch of random [semi personal]questions about love and relationships. If you wanna answer, go ahead. If you don't, well then forget you. What is love? Who was your first crush? Did you ever end up dating him/her? Are you still a virgin? If so why? Have you ever been in love? Why do parents give their teens [me] a certain age to start dating? Why don't parents trust teens as much as they say they do? How do you know hen a guy likes you? How do you know when a girl likes you? What's the point of having a girlfriend/boyfriend (besides the fact that it prepares you for marriage, sex ect...)?Why do people have to be so confusing?Why do girls/boys act dumb around someone they have a crush on? What was your first kiss like? Did you like it? Ok...........I'm done now. But I still have 117 characters left.......hmmm. Oh well.
2006-07-10 10:31:57 · 11 answers · asked by K 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-10 10:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Try breaking this up into several questions... you'll get some great answers that way, I would bet. My first crush was my first "boyfriend" Craig, in 7th grade. It was all sweet, hand holding and some kissing but that was it. But it wasn't love.
Parents use their best judgment in giving their teens times and standards for dating. Sometimes parents are wrong but they love their kids and only want the best, believe it or not.
If you think it's all confusing now as a teen (and it is, I know!), wait till you get older and you have even more mind games and baggage to deal with. Relationships are hard. Honesty is the only way to go. Unfortunately, honest people are few and far between, so be very cautious about who you trust with your heart.
Good luck to you... and love really is so worth it all when you meet the one you were meant to be with.
2006-07-10 10:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by postalmaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order of asking
Love is something you know in your soul and cannot be defined adequately by anyone person or in words comprehensible by anyone else.
A guy named Aubrey Cook when I was thirteen.
Yes. Dated him. Then Dumped him.
No, but I'm married.
Yes, a few times. Only once that really mattered tho (again...married)
They know from experience that hormones and dating can be volatile and dangerous combinations. Plus love (well, puppy love) can really suck. They don't want to see you hurt because your "true love" wasn't so true after all.
It's hard to tell. They say women are hard to read. Men are worse.
I don't think I've ever had a girl like me. Of if she did I either denied it or didn't know.
Having a bf/gf gives you someone to have a little something more with. Beyond sex or marriage, it is someone who you trust differently. You feel more special around them and more comfortable most of the time. Someone you know you can cry too when stuff sucks. Someone who doesn't mind a physical touch, someone you can get close to without feeling uncomfortable. It is companionship, something each human is programmed to desire.
People are only confusing because they are different from you. If everyone was the same what fun would life be?
Dumb most likely equals hormones. You don't know what to say to that person and your body is saying I WANT YOU! Obviously you can't say that...but what do you say? I'm married and I still don't know that sort of stuff.
My first kiss was slobbery and kinda gross. His breath stunk and he had really bad acne. Slightly distracting. Sad to say, my first kiss wasn't great. Now my first kiss with my husband was perfect. It was just a little peck on the lips but it was the perfect pressure and timing and sent chills up my spine that kept going even after the kiss ended. His kisses still do that to me.
Alright. Hope that relieved some of your boredom.
2006-07-10 10:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is amazing :). Umm a girl in my class. Nah I didn't date her. Yes I'm still a virgin, because the time hasn't been right yet? I am in love now. Parents are just overprotective often and don't give you many chances to earn their trust. They're just paranoid. A guy likes you when he acts interested and tries to spend time with and around you. It's hard to tell when a girl likes you, I'm not too sure since I'm no ta girl. The point of having a girlfriend is to have someone to have and to hold and to love and care about, and to make them feel good and feel good yourself. People are just weird. They act dumb cause they don't know what else to do. It was a little awkward but it was really nice and led into a lot of better ones. practice makes perfect right? ;).
2006-07-10 10:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to define love because trying to define it is very hard, and love is different for everyone. My first crush? First I can remember is Tara Shanahan. I asked her out and got a no. Oh well. Still a virgin? HA! I've been in love a few times. Parents give their children a certain age to start dating because before (and usually during) that time, children are way too young, immature, and unexperienced in what love actually is, and think that their infatuation is love. We as adults have experienced real love and what a very powerful thing it is, and we know we abused "love" when we were younger and we don't want you repeating the mistakes we made thinking lust or infatuation is love.
I know a girl likes me if she asks me out, or if she says yes to a date. I don't care that much before those points.
The point is to learn how to have intimate (not sexual) relationships with people of different personalities and how to work with them.
People are confusing because as humans, we are confusing.
My first kiss was a stupid 1st grade kind of kiss. I'm sure I liked it.
2006-07-10 10:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..
love = VERY SURE/strong/emotional/mature/ feeling that will make you crazy about a person.
my first crush was a girl named Lindsey Salinas in 2nd grade. [havent thought about that in years]. didn't date her. too young
not a virgin
i have been in love
it's not what age you are that your parents feel that is a good dating age... it's how mature you are. if they say your not ready.. you're probably not ready. don't be afraid to trust them with some stuff.. because when you are a parent you WILL know more than your kids.
it's hard to tell when a guy likes you, but if he pays alot of attention to you, then he likes you. don't be afraid of talking to a guy because chances are greater that he's much mor afraid of you. seriously
same for girls...kinda. if a girl pays attention to a guy.. they like them.
the point of having a b/f or g/f is that you are able to have a companion that you can share the intamite feelings with that you can't share with your best friend. example: if i went up to my boy mike and laid a wet one on him, i'll get stuck in the face.
people are confusing becuase they are confused. if you are sure of your thought/actions/words then there would be alot less confusion. you can't be confusing about something as simple as 2+2. that's why knowledge is very pwerful. it can make you a leader amongst those who can't think for themselves.
kids act dumb around people they like cuz they are nervous.
and my 1st kiss was the best. her name was ashley
2006-07-10 10:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first. Always take it easy. you do not need to know about my love life in this setting but to cut to the chase. Parents do what they do because they really know better. until you have children of your own you won't understand yet. teens are vulnerable in many circumstances. You hormaones are changing and sh*t happens. Parents know that and they are just trying to protect you. Enjoy your freedom and stressless life without worrying toom uch about love for now because it can hurt sting and kill bad. if someone likes you they will have balls to let you know.period. it does happen. lets hope they are not psycho male or female. my first kiss felt good but sucked @13 as i was told i had bad breath during spin the bottle. Boy those where bad years! I recommend you make an attempt to take with your parents about how you feel. I think they will appreciate it .take care
2006-07-10 10:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by theblackbeatles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, What a rough age. I remember those questions but its odd because I want to tell you that they go away but they don't. They just change questions. From dating to relationsip to marriage, renting, buying, kids, careers, etc. They don't ever go away, they just change. My advice to you and to anyone really. Follow your heart and remember..this to shall pass. Things come and go move on and stay. you need to do whats best for you and your life. Good luck!!
2006-07-10 10:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 of my best friends told my parents about my 1st crush when she spent the weekend with us
2006-07-10 10:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by love_thebeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, I have to be in bed by 11:00 tonight
2006-07-10 10:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by lovesyourdiamond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... i don't know ur thing is 2 long
2006-07-10 10:35:18 · answer #11 · answered by maxjay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋