What's the deal?! I have never cheated on anyone!!! I have been with 7 other people. He has been with 3 other people. So everytime he drinks he tells me that he doesn't trust me because of my past! I think that is a STUPID arugement. I have more reason to not trust him but for some reason he doesn't think so. Because I had a one night stand ( I guess) he thinks I am more likely to cheat.
Does anyone agree with me? Or does he have a logical arugement?
Also he says that my number bothers him because of the whole 'ego' thing. Is there anything I can do to help this?
I never thought my number was bad until I met him. In my circle of friends I was always 'the good one'. How many partners have you been with?
He is definately the last. He knows that and we both feel the same way. But this a reoccuring discussion that really bothers me. HELP!
2006-07-10 10:03:36 · 8 answers · asked by kristina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have no intentions of breaking up with him. Our relationship is great. This is the only problem we have and it only comes up when he has had a lot to drink. Which is not often.
2006-07-10 10:17:27 · update #1
He probably doesn't trust you because he cheated on his girl. I mean he feels guilty about it and he thinks everyone Else's going to do it. Just let him know how you feel, and let him know you can't really have a relationship without trust because trust is a big part of relationship. Good Luck.
2006-07-10 10:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the right here...how many people you've slept with is of absolutely no consequence, as long as you were honest and 'faithful' to each. It doesn't matter if it was 7, 70, or 700.
Cheating however, is a different ballgame. Some people believe once a cheater, always a cheater...I hope that is not true...but it does show the character somewhat of that person...that they've broken someone's trust and betrayed them..
If he's got that big of an issue with how many partner's you've had, then let him go. He's likely to hold it over your head constantly and it's not worth his illogical view...apparently he's ashamed of his cheating, and found something he could hold over your head to make him feel better about himself...don't allow it!
2006-07-10 17:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what is your question???? Should you be arguing about the past ?(No.) Should you be ashamed of the number of partners you have had (Does that matter now?)....and just as an aside, why are you sharing all of this....Who cares what went on before. If you care about each other, what difference does it make? We all come with a history of some sort...... is this a numbes game???? And are you supposed to feel guilty????? silly stuff.... You both need to grow up, or you both need to find someone else...
2006-07-10 17:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
on your next boyfriend (statistically speaking, there will be another), DO NOT tell him a number. If he requires a number (which only immature people do), adjust your number.
DO NOT ask your new boyfriend for his number - this may only prompt him to ask you the same.
2006-07-10 17:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by aka Astra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men get funny when a woman has slept with more women than him... believe me i know....he sounds like a fool.... trust eatchother until anyone has any reason not 2.... this relationship is already in trouble..i would just move on.. but that's me.
2006-07-10 17:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. He's insecure and I wouldn't bother with him. He needs to make you feel guilty so he can get the upper hand and control you. Ditch him.
2006-07-10 17:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some boys just don't understande our world
2006-07-10 17:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Carmen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him!
2006-07-10 17:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Mystery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋