it may sound stupid but i think it might work. shes kinda talkin to someone else, we still live together, dated 5 yrs. Shes the kinda person that gets really jealous over me, and ive yet to act interested in someone else. Ive always treated her like shes a princess, so if i stop, will she want me? plus she said that she thinks that there is a future, but she wants to make sure that this is right. I love her very much, and am willing to do anything to get her back.
2006-07-10 09:48:41 · 29 answers · asked by t2006s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you're moving out and moving on. As long as you're still sharing a home, the relationship won't really be over for either of you- if she sees you're willing to get on with your life, she may realize she wants you to stay. And if she's through with you for good, it's best for you to move on, anyway.
2006-07-10 09:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 4⤋
If you love her very much then maybe you should let her now be there for her when she needs you. Express how you feel. If that does not work then maybe you should let her go her way give her some space. I am sure that is not what you want to here. I had a boyfriend once that I loved a lot. But we kept fighting. I thought that maybe if I just acted like I was not intrested and took interest in some one else he would come around. But in the end the only person it hurt was me. And maybe that other person.
2006-07-10 16:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by girl in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here is my insight, if you treated her like a princess then why would she second guess the fact that she wants a future with you? You should have her leave and go with another woman because some women may appreciate what you do, not take it for granted. It appears to me that she doesn't care how well you treat her because if she did, she wouldn't be seeing someone else. Lets say she does take you back, whats to say that she isn't going to do the same thing again? Use good judgement and you will see that she isn't the one for you!
2006-07-10 16:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a classic "nice guy," who treats his woman so good that the woman doesn't respect him anymore and wants someone who is more of a man. News alert, women do not respect guys they can get anything they want from. It's the same with spoiled children, they treat the people who give them everything like crap and the ones who are selfish and a little mean to them, they can't get enough of. Trying to make her jealous will only make your life worse. Instead, you should grow a pair and completely dump her, and start acting like a man.
2006-07-10 16:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by Bogey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off a little bit.
If you want to make her jelous, do something subtle, like
looking at someone else.
Stop treating her so well she's probably getting bored with that, if she's a hottie, she will leave you, because she can get that affection anywhere, in an hour if she wanted it.
If she's average, still don't because she could find it reasonably easy.
If she's a cow, (no offense) she's hard pressed for affection, and will stay forever.
2006-07-10 16:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by wd20x2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to make her jealous might get her to come back to you, but it's not right. If she wants to see if there's anything else out there before deciding on whether she's going to settle for you, she's obviously not ready for the serious relationship you're hoping for. My opinion is that you need to move on. Five years is a long time but it seems to me that she's losing interest. She goes back to you because you DO treat her right. But no matter what you do, it's not going to keep her. You've become her rebound and it's time for you to say BYE!
2006-07-10 16:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO everyone doing wrong things to each other will never make a situation right, what do you mean you live together and she's talking to someone else? tell her if she wants to screw around get her stuff and get out, end of discussion but two wrongs will never make a right and that isn't what you want to have a relationship based on anyway. if this is what you have to do to have this girl why do you want this girl?
2006-07-10 16:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself what foundation you want for your married life. Do you want it to be based on a lie? Do you want to marry someone you've had to "get" by manipulation, game playing, and lies?
I say walk away, and begin looking for a mate that will love you for exactly who you are....if she is really the one...it will work out later when your both a bit more mature.
After all, if she is so immature to run back to you out of jealousy, she's not that much of a catch...right?
2006-07-10 16:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommened that you get over the first one before you take a step forward why hurt someone else? Plus it evident that you still like this girl so if for the new one why would you do this to yourself? Just creating unnecessary problems
2006-07-10 16:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you totally unhinged? Kick her butt to the curb. If she's not sure after 5 years, then she's just being nice and trying not to hurt your feelings and hoping that you'll eventually get the message to move on.
2006-07-10 16:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by germaine_87313 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's "talking" to someone else while living with you, then she doesn't want you. If she did, she would be trying to figure out how to make it work, just like you. But she's not. She doesn't want to be with you. Move out, and find someone who actually wants to BE with you, not just string you along for fun.
2006-07-10 16:52:27 · answer #11 · answered by rocknrobin21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋