My hubby's EX is being acting wrong in several ways with their kid, first she agree that their boy (10yrs) will come & spend summer with us but she wanted for my hubby 2 drive 15hrs 2 pick him up after a decition we went to pick his son but she was not home we were there the for 8 hours then she called & say she forgot she was out of town too, then after a week trying 2 find her on the phone she said it was okay for the boy 2 go on the plane we bought a round trip w/ secirity for child ticket & gave her confiramtion # & flyight # but she didn't tooke the boy & cuz we didn't cancel on time the ticket was lost, after another week of calling & calling with no answer she just told my hubby that he will never see his son again & that he allready know that his dad didn't want him over the summer, which is not true. My hubby is concerned & worried ,Can he fight to get custody? or What should be a better way to fix this,?He is a very father of 3, he doesn't want his son 2 be more hurt!!!
2006-07-10 09:48:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Yes go to court. That wasn't right. She made you come all the way and then she told you she was out of town and- she played games with you. That is not right. Go to court tell your husbend to go to court.
2006-07-10 11:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by ummestarz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
~Do you speak English? I got half way through your gibberish and gave up because I have NO idea what you are trying to say! All I got out of it was something about you taking someone elses kid for the summer. Please do thier child a favor and stay away from them. Children need positive roll models in thier lives, not blonde bimbos who can't even type a simple question and click on the "Check Spelling" button right in front of thier faces.
If in fact you do not speak english then I humbly apologize and request that you ask this question on a different site in your native language so people can actually understand you.
Thank you for your time
2006-07-10 16:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by BitterSweetDrama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he can fight for custody! My boyfriend has custody of my stepson and has had it for a while. Just because he's the father doesn't mean he won't win. Not all moms automatically win. Especially if you have the proof (plan ticket, ...) that will help you all win.
2006-07-10 16:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by toni01rh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this boy's mother is unstable and you should get the police involved to find him before she dissappears with him or something! Really- I'd be really worried about finding him and getting him back considering the circumstances. Call the cops, social services, something- you have every right to do so if you're concerned for his safety. I would be.
2006-07-10 16:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him to go to court for custody of his son. It's not right that she's playing games and causing y'all to lose time and money and then still not getting to see the boy. Good luck.
2006-07-10 16:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can file for custody that way child knows he dad does want him. It is really hard for kids. he will just have to prove she is unfit. I will be going through this in Sept. I do want my kids in there fathers life. I am tried of him making me feel like i am a bad mom.
2006-07-10 17:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should fight for Custody. since you have the proof that you were trying to get him to come, then you have nothing to worry about, BUT you will have to go to where the mom is for the court cases. good luck
2006-07-10 16:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get custody of the boy!
2006-07-10 21:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he can go to the cop and report her for kidnapping if what you said is what happened. Ask the police for advice explain everything...Maybe they can help
2006-07-10 16:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by Melany V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋