Why i've never seen any minority person like myself with a beautiful girl of other culture?

Question

Usually if i see things like mixed relationships,, it's a well acculturated guy with a well acculturated girl. Example Japanese girl with outgoing white guy, .. chinese girl with Outgoing Hip B lack guy.. I'm mexican looking, but not your typical Spanish looking mexican, i'm the kind that looks like ancient maya indian, small and kind of don't have presence like a big white OUTGOING guy would. So is there anyhope for me? Or is that why "people marry people of their own culture/race", because there is no chance for other.

Answer 1

Okay, I answered one of you other questions, about being Mexican/American. Whats wrong with you looking like a Mayan? Thats cool!! Do you want a girl out of your race? Not that thats a problem, but....ppl find fing happiness with other ppl. No matter the race, color, culture..its all about the person.Then you said you" dont have a presence like a big white outgoing guy would"....boy I know alot of white boys that are SHY!! And do you know whay girls probably dont talk to them...because when youre outgoing your confident...and girls dig that. So why dont you get some(confidence)and quit obsessing about crazy $hitand I bet youll get you a girl.

Answer 2

Why do you feel you must marry a woman of another race to be happy.Don't get me wrong I am not concerned with that more than I am your apparent dislike of girls of your race. Why don't you look past what you see as being ideal and find out more about why you have such a negative opinion of your own race. Do you think these guys with different race girlfriends are somehow setting a standard you feel you have to go by?I have never understood how you could love/like another based only on their color .There is a true love waiting for you if only you will open your eyes and stop judging only by race.

Answer 3

First of all there is hope. Change your attitude
1.Don't be so hard on yourself. 2.Love yourself for who God made you to be. 3.Be careful for what you wish for and beware of this so called "beautiful girl" ego thing you have going on. There are plenty of women who are beautiful but we tend to attract how we present ourselves. If you are not a big OUTGOING guy why would a "beautiful acculturated girl go for you? What do you have to offer then just claim that you are a small ancient maya man. Life is full of double standards. If your priorty is just beauty then maybe you should go to the gym or treat yourself nice and look the role of what you wish to attract. I feel sorry for men who feel that they are Gods gift to beautiful woman and they feel that they have to do actually nothing to merit knowing these type of people. I mean May people are beutiful too. Don't make your expectations so high. I know plenty of Maya looking guys that women love but you have to be around and not so hard on yourself. Confidence helps. Good luck.

Answer 4

If you think like that, then perhaps there isn't any chance for you. Just because the majority of the mixed couples are of those races do not mean that there are no couples of different ethnicities. Perhaps the thing keeping those girls away is your lack of self confidence and not your ethnicity.

Answer 5

Your biggest problem is that you are confined by the way you think of yourself. However, there is hope; look around you and see how many real losers are still with someone. If they can do it, so can you.

Answer 6

I think you need to be concentrating on the girl's personality, not race- and do the same for yourself.

Answer 7

of course there is hope for you, just like anyone else from any culture you just have to be patient until you find the right one.

Answer 8

you looking in all the wrong places.