and are sex life is getting to be a little routine. Not that I don't enjoy it, but I would enjoy it a little more if I would orgasm. Any suggestions!???
2006-07-10 09:33:42 · 14 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey like the other guy said... communication is the key to a relationship, I was having the same problems as you are. Until I sat down with my boyfriend and I told him how I felt, I asked him to let me show him where is turns me on and how to do it. He did not mind and it happened when I least expected it, but a good way to orgasm before he does is getting yourself prepared.... meaning that while he is getting showered or in the bathroom just play with yourself touch and caress until you feel that you need to have your guy, and once he gets near ask him to let you be on top where it hits your g spot more and ride him the way your please... now you are not being selfish since he will obviously be enjoying it himself and trust me you will finish happy :) Let me know how it worked out for you.
2006-07-10 09:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by Cassie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him suggestions, tell him what you need. My BF is awesome about getting me there however it needs to be done. A lot of guys think that intercourse is the only way and you have to "teach" them.
If you have been with this guy a year then you should be comfortable enough to tell him, baby I want to try something new, will you do this or can we try that? Maybe you can shop together for some toys he can use on you. The difference between a good relationship and a great one is the ability to talk to each other about anything.
Good Luck.
2006-07-10 16:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open with your partner and start talking. Let him/her know what you want and like. Get to know your own body too so that you can suggest the things that will get you closer to an orgasm faster. The mind is one of the biggest erogenous zones out there, so start opening it up and learn how to explore each other. Take your time, learn to tease and touch longer. Have fun!!
2006-07-10 16:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mxdpl8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually I buy a book w/ different sex positions, (there are a ton online) that adds some spice to the routine... Communication is key to having a good and safe sex life.
2006-07-10 16:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by Genesis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No actually that is normal... That is why people stop having it... after a long period of time... the same humdrum experience... if you can't orgasm then maybe it's you... there are some females that can't it is a problem... tell your doctor and see what they say...
2006-07-10 16:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by need to know basis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your guy to get with the program and get you off. if he cant do it either through oral, or sex, then maybe you need to give him a little help and rub the little man in the boat while you and he are having sex
2006-07-10 16:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by dgr0919 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the time to bring out all your intimate fantasies with him, even if you think it's too embarrasing to say outloud, it's time to get comfortable and do what you enjoy most in bed.. he will LOVE it and so will you..
2006-07-10 16:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by viviane25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ever had an orgasm, if yes, how? if no, experiment urself and see what helps u orgasm
enjoy!
2006-07-10 16:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by Viktoriya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe explore on your own what makes you have organisms, and then ask him what you can do to make him happier. When he shows you what to do, show him what to do?
2006-07-10 16:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by Purpleagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
found out what makes you both tick and do it. spice it up a bit.
2006-07-10 16:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by fille_morte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋