I am 21, and i am single, if i find the girl that wants to marry me, do you think Is it to early for my age?

Answer 1

I think you should keep enjoying life being single. 21 in my opinion is way to early to begin a family or marriage. Think it through more. You would have so many responsibilities with a wife/ family than you would just being single.

Answer 2

I think that at age of 21 you are still young and inexperience, don't get me wrong I am young myself. But what I am trying to say is the same thing I tell my sister who is 18, I think that at your age you should enjoy life (with a limit of course) and have as many friends as you can. It's too soon in life to take someone you THINK you might want to marry so serious, sometimes the couples who get married really young without being in the relationship for longer than the average of 1 year are the first known to separate. I think that you should enjoy your young 20's and have fun... if you already know of someone whom you've known for a while and you think that she is the one, than talk to that person, pursue a relationship and see where it takes you. Sometimes Destiny plays a funny role in life and sometimes it only provides a heart break. So always know first if the person on the other end feels the same about you. I hope you end up finding the person in life that is your other half.

Answer 3

Yes. Too early for most. I married at 21 with the best of intentions. We divorced in under 2 years. Looking back, I was not even close to being ready.
Now I'm 27 and finally realizing what a true healthy relationship is all about. If she's the right once, she'll want thing to progress slowly and consistantly. It's easy to get caught up in the newness of a relationship, the fun, spontaneous life. But when you get married, reality sets it, bills, kids, work, family, etc. You really need to KNOW your partner in order to balance all this out and make marriage last. Good luck.

Answer 4

Well think about it....you're single right now at 21.
Say you find a girl within a year from now. 22
You get to know her more, like her, love her 23
Then if you are wonderful together, happy,
successfully going through trials and
tribulations, and growing together 24
And decide to get married...then it brings
you to about ..................25. Of course it all depends when you meet "the one" girl....how long you date....wedding plans...etc etc. People say date for two years or what. But if you're talking about meeting a girl at a bar or what tomorrow, and she wants to marry you the next day. Then..uh...that's just funked and wrong. heh But for a loving marriage...then..eh..25 is a good age anyway.. But we all are different right? See, I met hubby at 23, got married at 24. With us it was a truthfully match made by God. So we just knew we were eachother's mate. So you just wont know what and when everything will happen. Lord willing you'll find "the one" woman of your life at the appropriate time.

Answer 5

I would have to say if you are secure enough with your job, and actually planning on settling down. My sister was suppose to get married to a kid who was 21 he decided 2 weeks before the wedding that he wasnt ready. my sister has been a mess since then. Do me a favor make sure you are actually ready. I am ready to put the kid in a wheel chair. I am 21 and have no plans whatsoever to get married. do you actually see yourself with this person for the rest of your life, or do you think it will end up like 70% of marriages these days, as a divorce and a lawsuit for money and custody. Think about it real carefully before you make that decision

Answer 6

Yes .. I don't think anyone should get married until the age of 25 or older ... !

But that's just me .... I'm a 24 year old divorced single parent ... and I know how hard marriage is (was) and I don't think any young right minded person is "mature" enough to make those decisions at such a young age .... but like I said .. that's just me... !

Answer 7

What you fail to realize is this. Women change. Your girl is probably the same age as you. By the time she is 25 she will feel like she missed out on so much in her "Fun years" that she's going to stray away from you. Your going to meet a lot of women that find you attractive and your going to hate you jumped in so early. Love is for the birds. WHat the dont tell you is that when time change your mind change.

Now take 2 ov deez and call me in the mornin'

Answer 8

I think that it depends on the level of your maturity. People tend to know when the time is ready. I think that it is better to wait before regretting about your hasty decision. Ponder over your goals and finish off your dreams and your schooling. It is best to invest a lot before getting married. It is a heavy responsibility and when you are ready and mature enough to carry it, you may do it. Marriage is a romantic affair but also a serious one. You have to be qualified as a serious, mature and wise person. Marry in your late 20's. It's better.

Answer 9

Yes its too damn early! Enjoy your single life more at least until your 25! I'm 24 and I still think I'm too young to get married or have kids! I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 yrs and just in case he proposes I will say yes but not get married till 2 yrs after. Trust me enjoy yourself!

Answer 10

only you can answer that. I tell people not to get married until they have experienced everything they want to as a single person. Some experience those earlier than others. my hubby got an early start on his life experiences, so he was ready when we married when he was 22. it's all up to the individual.

Answer 11

I don't think it's too early for you to marry, but I think that's a large expectation for any girl going into a relationship at that age...

Start small by finding a date and work from there...

Good luck :)