2006-07-10 09:23:47 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on ur personality ,but from my opinion i dont wanna do it b4 marriage.i wanna have sex with the person i really love, i know he is mine, only mine, & share this nice feeling with me only . this is the healthy relation i think, but if u try it with every boyfriend that comes in ur life, u will lose ur energy and enjoyment in ur real life(married life)
then u will not feel trustful in ur relation .
God gave us this passion and nice feeling about oposit sex, to use it in a right way ,with the person that is booked for u,and only u.
2006-07-10 09:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by ___ãÃâãhà 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It is called fornication or if u are an adult it is called adultry.If u go to the bible which is the king james version it states in this passage Deutoronomy 22:13-29 that you should not have sex before marriage. This tells you excatly what should happen. Well just put it this way would you put ur hand in the fire and hold it there and let it burn or take it because it hurts most definately you will take it out so stay away until you are married. It is not hard to wait. Its hard only when people try to push you but its not because people are only there to push you knowing its wrong and they want you to be in trouble or to be like them.
2006-07-10 09:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by Hoel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the contrary, it is the only sure way to know if you and your partner are physically compatible. I answered a question earlier this morning from a man who was on the verge of divorce because he and his wife were physically incompatible. Had they given each other a trial run, they would have averted disaster early on.
Certainly, there is much more to a relationship than sex - but let's not underestimate the importance of physical intimacy in evaluating the potential long-term viability of any couple. That is not to say that we should run around copulating like rabbits - an act so intimate is better shared with someone we know we love than a stranger we hope to know better.
Given everything at stake in marrying someone, I don't think it's wrong to get a sample before buying the whole thing.
2006-07-10 09:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by www.ayntk.blogspot.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my personal opinion, no. As long as you use contraception and you're in a stable relationship there's nothing wrong with it. But we all have different beliefs; if you were brought up in a conservative christian church then I can understand why you might think it wrong. At the end of the day it's your choice to make and should be dictated by your own personal beliefs. Only you can decide whther it's right or wrong.
2006-07-10 09:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by MJstar99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a bad thing if your doing it for all the wrong reasons,have sex because you wont to not because someone is pressing you into doing it,just make sure that person is worth it and use condoms don't have sex without them it's too many std out there
it's a good thing once you found that right person there no feeling like it
2006-07-10 09:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by BIG MOMMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people would say yes but I say that as long as your having sex with the person you love than its OK .... You dont need to go out have have sex with many different guys but as long as your in love and only sleeping with one person that you have true feelings for than its OK ... Me and my fiancee have sex and we are not married yet but planning on getting married. Good Luck
2006-07-10 09:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not a bad thing. More people have sex before they get married.
2006-07-10 09:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by agraat23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. There are so many more consequences that come with having sex before marraige. Things that you wouldn't even imagine. Being a virgin is such a gift, keep it like that and wait till your married.
2006-07-10 09:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God I hope not I am 38 and never been married, of course that is because people are really shallow, but I digress to issues that go beyond the nature of the question. Also it doesn't help when your or my family is completely insane.
2006-07-10 09:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex B4 marriage is quit common nowadays - must be all that cheap porn on the internet that law officials keep allowing into law under the freedom of information act that gets them going like that
2006-07-10 09:37:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋