I like this guy!But he is very shy!We hang out but not a lot!Everybody says he likes me but he hasn't asked me out yet.I can't ask him out you don't know how shy I am!What will he do before he tells me???
2006-07-10 09:23:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shy just means your a thinking type of person. That's all. It isn't a bad thing or something that makes you look bad. In fact, it makes you look strong.
So do the right thing and ask him out first. He will be flattered and impressed that you take charge and are not afraid to take the first steps. It will show him that you are independent and a independent thinker too.
2006-07-10 09:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are very shy, you might not ever go out with him. One of you will have to make a move, right?
If you are in the same circle, you could mention to one of your mutual friends that you want him to ask to go out with you.
You could just hand him a little card, that says "please ask me out".
2006-07-10 09:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is really shy, you may have to give him a nudge, and tell your friends to drop some hints. If that doesn't work, move on, he'll regret it someday when he's older.
2006-07-10 09:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by dk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dependinf on how old you are: use your best friend or someone you've told to give him a note that you wrote telling him anything at first dont tell him your name then do it when he starts to send notes back or when you feel its the right time. if he asks your friend who's sending the notes have her say " i don't kno someone's leaving them around for me" ( or something like that) trust me if you say "i love you" you'll be togerher in no time as long as he loves you back.
2006-07-10 09:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by candycraze123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve got to make the first move, otherwise he probley never will, if the signs are there ul not regret it. big urself up and be happy!!
2006-07-10 09:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by laydee_t_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't be shy and ask him if he really likes you.. Don't keep your self in suspense..
There is only one way to find out and it doesn't matter if you make the first move..
2006-07-10 09:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by Nazanin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you both appear to be very shy, don't try to enforce things head over heels. take your time and everything will happen naturally.
2006-07-10 09:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by belboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not take into account.Try to look for next day,and so on.
2006-07-10 09:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by Leonard B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of u have to quit this shyness.....so u urself try hard to do so or give him signals for him to think wut to do
2006-07-10 09:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by the_saint_heero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋