Has anyone ever looked through their girlfriends diary and found something shocking, about yourself and what she's being doing (womens secrets). Men: How would you React? Women: Why do women hide things like this to their partners?
2006-07-10 09:22:38 · 19 answers · asked by FoxyMan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not me personally, i just always wanted to know, why women write their deepest thoughts in their diarys instead of being truthful/open to their partners.
2006-07-10 09:29:21 · update #1
Maybe the reason guys read their girlfriends diarys, is so they themselves know the real truth sometimes, instead of being led on or decieved and living in 'another world'. Its the same with these email scams "see if your partner is cheating online" etc etc.
2006-07-10 09:33:03 · update #2
you can almost taste the divide, an interesting question, thats why i asked it, not that i'd ever dare to do it (yet!) :)
2006-07-10 09:35:37 · update #3
Look...no one likes to read or hear bad things about themselves anytime...if you can't stand the heat...stay out of the kitchen...!
You have two ways you can look at this experence...#1-accept what she wrote as a criticism...and now that you know what she doesn't like...correct that part of yourself...and better the relationship...or...#2-if you can't accept criticism...and learn from your mistakes...and better yourself...then walk away from the relationship you have right now with her...and find one...that's going to lie to you...just to make you happy...!
Now you tell me...what makes the most sense...The one thing you better not do...is tell her...that you read her diary...if you do...she'll drop you like a hot potatoe...and then step on you hard...Hell...hold'th no fury...like a woman scorn...! Believe me I know...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-10 09:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing going through your girlfriend's diary? It's an invasion of privacy. Those are private thoughts. What happened to love and trust? Shame on you.
Look at it from a different perspective. What would she have thought of your diary? (If you don't have one just imagine the details of your life you would write down). I'm sure your girlfriend would be equally shocked.
It was never meant to be read by you so don't take it personally. You've opened a door that should have remained firmly shut...
2006-07-10 16:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you actually invaded her privacy and read her diary? If so, that is despicable. It is a record of her thoughts at the time and as anyone knows that changes several times in 24 hours..... Unless she has murdered someone, robbed a bank or is prostituting behind your back, forget it and get in touch with the real world.
If you discovered something shocking about yourself you deserve it! You need to learn some respect for privacy and put it into practise.
2006-07-10 16:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you react in any way at all it will be obvious to her that you have read her diary and she will never trust you again. Try and forget about what you have read.
Women moan and rant about their partners all the time but it doesn't mean they don't want to be with them.
Save yourself the hassle, and try and forget about it.
If what you read is something you could sort out subtly without letting her know that you read her diary... well it could be worth your while.
2006-07-10 16:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by dashabout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all a girls diary should never be read by anyone it is personal thing and you need to own up. Women/girls keep diaries because there are things that we like to remember or keep a secret. Tell me this do you tell her everything??????
2006-07-10 16:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by megajen2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep a diary, do you know why? Because men dont listen to us or arent interested in what happens to us sometimes! If you (men) could be more comprehensive, women would rarely have diaries.... And you also have secrets, but we need to take them out, you keep them... Everyones got secrets....
if everyone read my diary I would be very angry, so dont so it!
2006-07-10 17:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by militastarg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO!!!! You don't ever do that,it is like forcing your girl to have sex with you,if she wanted you to see something then she would show you but that is wrong!! I can understand if you were a mind reader it is very private!
If I were you and found something you did not want to see then it is best to forget about your relationship because she will not forgive you just as you will not forgive her.
2006-07-10 16:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by Spooky Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If girls hide info in a diary that they don't want to share, what else are they hiding?
Diaries are for recording events in life not for hiding "secret" info.
2006-07-10 16:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by Fred Flintstone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, found the diary in a sunken treasure box at the bottom of a lake. It read, "My boyfriend drowned me with his love"...
2006-07-10 16:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt look through someones diary!Let alone ur girlfriends!
its rude and u r being nosy-with other ppls lives.
even though she iz ur girlfriend u've got 2 respect her so she can trust u.
2006-07-10 16:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋