he asked me if i wanted a one night stand so i said ok and now he wont leave me alone what should i do????
2006-07-10 09:19:56 · 18 answers · asked by Alley426 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WELL MY TYPE FOR DATING> AND HE ASKED IF I WANTED A ONE NIGHT STAND AND I SAID YA NOW HE WONT LEAVE ME ALONE WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-07-10 09:34:27 · update #1
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX You had a one night stand with someone you didn't want in the first place? Now you are suffering the consequences. Serves you right. Next time you'll know not to lead someone on or have sex with them because they ask. ewwww XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-10 09:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you already do the deed (one night stand)? Then, tell him straight: "I said 1 night stand was what I was OK with, and now you're clinging on. Not to be a cold b...., but, it was fun while it lasted and now it's over. Move on, and take it as a compliment that I wanted sex and not a relationship--believe me, you'll have plenty of chances the other way around!"
That's one way at least.
2006-07-10 16:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be smarter! why on earth would you say yes to that deal? sorry but you earned this problem! tell him to back off, i am still stunned by the fact that you would do it in the first place, its a bad idea on so many levels, you work with him so can't avoid him if you want to, he let you know he was interested in more than that up front and somehow you disregarded that and then slept with him anyway?! what did you think was going to happen! these situations are easily avoided by not being a s l u t!
2006-07-10 16:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... what you shouldnt have done was slept with the guy, esp someone you work with. I would tell him that it was just a ONS and for him to please leave you alone. Let him know you appreciate that he likes you and all, but it needs to stop. If it doesn't, then you need to bring it up to HR and let them handle it if it gets to the point of sexual harrassement file a report on him. Just don't lead him on anymore than you already have.
Man, not a good idea to have done that girl!!!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-10 16:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. It's just sex and if you are willing to have the one night stand, why not. Use him as a sex tool. The problems is that when you give him the time of his life but he sucks in giving you the same and starts to get clingy and annoying, it's time to get a new job.
2006-07-10 16:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Inquisit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he didn't really mean a one night stand but a beginning to a relationship. You just have to tell him straight out that you're just not interested. Hopefully he's not a stalker and you can just easily avoid him until he gets the picture. Hope you succeed!
2006-07-23 21:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Melody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know you skills better than that. Any guy that said he wanted a one night stand with me, I tell him, "Trust me you'd be back". My last one night stand lasted 12 years.
You are going to simply have to stop taking his calls and if he keeps pursuing you at work, ask him if it wants to keep his job. Unwanted advances are a case for sexual harrassment. I let him know that HR will be notified if he doesn't stop!
2006-07-10 16:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain the definition of "One night stand." Spell it out for him and let him know his label has expired. If he wanted more he should never have asked if you anted a one night stand!! Sometimes you just have to be blunt.
2006-07-10 16:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the??? you agree'd to a one night stand and your whineing that a guy (which are drived by sex) isnt leaving you alone?? duh you agree'd to no strings attactched sex, he wants as much as possible. If you havent slept with him you need to tell him to lay off and that you dont want anything with him, and if you did and he wont leave you alone, confont him and tell him it was a one time thing, and it WONT happen again.
2006-07-10 16:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you gave him a sexual "one night stand", then you led him on. Most guys use that excuse not only to get in your pants, but for a "chance" to continue. Bad decision.
I wish you the best. The best thing is to nip it in the bud, before it continues too far.
2006-07-10 16:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋