i'm asking this question for a friend... The other night she had a dream that she was getting raped and she was enjoying it... she says that when she woke up she was aroused by it... what does this mean?
2006-07-10 09:18:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being raped is not an uncommon fantasy. The difference between the reality and the fantasy is that the fantasy doesn't include some smelly, ugly, middle-aged pervert, AIDS and other STDs, pregnancy, serious injury or death, or the lingering fear of being attacked again.
The fantasy of being raped is a fantasy of a sexual experience in which the woman has no control. Mabie it includes erotic pain, but no real danger. It also implies that since th woman did not choose the experience, it can include aspects that she may normally be too shy to request from her lover (which can be as simple as sex with a stranger or being blindfolded, or more adventerous erotic experiences that I won't go into becuse I don't know how old you are).
Once your friend is in a committed relationship with someone she really trusts, she should be able to explore this fantasy, and others with him. But until she has a partner she feels very comfortable exploring desire with, she'll have to wait like we all did. ;)
2006-07-10 09:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it means she has some issues.
Second, it was a dream. This does not mean that she wants this to happen.
Third, she may have some unfulfilled sexual desires, but honestly, a dream is not reality. I would not council her to try a rape fantasy. Rapes are very emotionally traumatizing, and should not be explored in any avenue.
2006-07-11 10:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, It is okay even that friend is really "You"
Let me analyze the dream
Seems like that dream is not a rape dream.
Unconsciously she thought it is a rape; however, I think she is projecting a victim image in herself. There is something she wants to hide from emotionally.
I could be worng, but this is how I see from the dream
2006-07-14 20:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW what a weired dream . and this is a dream and it does not mean anything to do with rape. obviously she has some one in her life that is over powering her some who who tells her what to do and when to do it. also i think she is looking for some sort of escape from this person.
2006-07-11 10:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you be honest, we all know you had the dream- after saying that- i dont think that there is anything wrong with feeling that way- being raped is something "unknown" and "feared" and "wrong" so it makes it exciting- i have had the thought before about what it would be like- but i think that if it TRULY happened i would freak out!!!
2006-07-10 16:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by blahblahblah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree w/you that's a weird dream cuz rape and enjoyment contradict each other but it's not like the dream's an omen or something just some random thought
2006-07-10 16:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by metronome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I interpret this dream to mean that she is missing or seeking sexual fufilment in her everyday life. If she is married or has a lover it could be an indication that she is not satisfied with the relationship.
2006-07-10 16:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by diaryofamadblackman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is lacking sexual gratification. She has a fetish that is easily quenched with role playing. Tell your friend to talk it out with her significant other!
2006-07-10 16:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was raped when she was asleep.
in other words:
she was drugged.
2006-07-10 16:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Hawt Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has fantasy's about being dominated
2006-07-10 16:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋