I have been tlkn to a guy for probaly 6 months and we were just friends for a while and he has been known to have sex with a girl then leave them. well a few days he came down and i gave in and we had sex! and he told me im the only one he wants to be with is there a way i can find out if he is serious or sumtin i can ask him to get the truth?
2006-07-10 08:52:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Please tell me it's not the 18 year old from your previous question.
2006-07-10 09:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure this is a health question for a relationship question. How can you find out if he's serious about what? If you are asking for verification that he's only having sex with you good luck. I don't know the test that would confirm that for sure. Especially since he could have sex with someone in the past.
Just be honest with him and if you think he's being honest with you after some careful consideration... proceed. But my advice is to always use protection no matter what he says so that you can protect yourself from very serious venereal diseases and HIV. In general if you don't know him well enough to trust him do not have sex with him. Having sex is the biggest decision of your life since they can result in lifetime commitment to children and possible exposure to deadly diseases.
2006-07-10 09:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably told that same thing to all the other girls he slept with before you too. Even if your going to confront him to tel the truth, he will definitely lie to you. He will keep on telling you that your the only one, until one day , then he's gone. Guys like that don't know what it means to respect a woman, all their after is sex.
They don't care how many girls get hurt in the process, as long as they can have their way with them.
2006-07-10 09:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me--you need to know each other a longer time (at least two years). And don't have sex with him during the time. If he has sex with any one else dump him.
2006-07-10 08:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by too frisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lied. The thing is, you knew he was a jerk ahead of time, and you gave in anyway. You have no one to blame but yourself when he says "it's over".
Move on.
2006-07-10 08:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by wyntre_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as the sex was awesome he will be back for more but hes a ******* playa wit stds and u should avoid him blah blah
2006-07-10 09:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by sucksazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont trust him he already for got about you
2006-07-10 08:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him if you can correct him.
2006-07-10 09:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋