2006-07-10 08:48:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because a lot of men don't realize what it takes to maintain a good relationship and only want sex. If they don't want anything past that, then there's really no point.
2006-07-10 08:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because you probably flaunt yourself. To find a good man you must dress regularly. Like t shirts that are not tight and pants that don't deifne how you butt looks. If a guy approaches, you will know that he definitely is not after you because you look like a whore, but a respectable young lady. I mean really, what guy that just wants to just have sex will approach a respectable young lady? Think about it. GO AFTER THE UGLY DUDES OR THE ONES NO GIRL SEEMS TO WANT. Those are the good ones.
2006-07-10 15:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by D Mack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man, and I don't just want sex. I like the companionship and the love that goes along with a relationship. I would love to find the right woman, but have had no luck yet.
2006-07-10 15:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Michal C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys out are programmed by false perceptions. Blame the media, their peer groups, their hormones, their family, their expectations. It's all based on the false perception that women want sex just as much as they do.
Truth is, they don't understand values. Trust, Honesty, Respect, Caring, Sharing, Appreciation, A Sense of Humor, and Unconditional love are what really matters here.
Those of us who do understand values and what it all means, usually don't get noticed, because the minority ruins it for the rest of us.
2006-07-10 15:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you first meet a guy, tell him what you are, who you are. For example, " I'm NOT looking for casual relationships, I want something that could be more. If all you want is casual dating with sex, then we can work something out, but if you want the same things I want, we can do that too." BUT, if he says, all he wants is casual sex dating, then never talk to him again. What do you have to loose?
2006-07-10 15:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are looking wrong places. Probably for the traits in a man. Look for more in your men. And don't give them sex. if the stay around with out it then they are it.
2006-07-10 15:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by BNutzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is a real man he says that when a man only wants you for sex its because hes trying to prove something to his friends he also says that most men are dogs
2006-07-10 15:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mary C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, there are men out there that does not want you for sex only; keep looking and you find the perfect one for you
2006-07-10 15:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't. However, if you generally meet guys in "pick up" places, then that's what you'll get.
You need to try to meet men who are interested in the things and lifestyle that you are. So, if you like going to church, join the singles club there. If you are into photography, join a photography club. If you like motorcycles, join a riding club.
Good luck to you!
2006-07-10 15:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't. Finding a man just for sex is much, much more difficult.
2006-07-10 15:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋