My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a couple months ago because of long distance. He told me and every1 else that it was for only that reason; that it wasn't me; just that it was too hard and he wanted to move on. I believe him. He's been out of town for a few weeks. Before that I happened to run into him at 1 of the places we used to hang out sometimes. He looked at me and just looked so sad. Haven't seen him since. Now someone else has come into the picture. He likes me a lot and I want to feel the same but I just don't. I was thinking of going out with him but now I think it's wrong, because I feel like I would be using him as a rebound to make my ex jealous. I don't know how I am supposed to tell him this, nor do I know how I am supposed to get over my ex. It's just so hard for me to keep this locked inside. I have everyone convinced I hate him when I honestly don't. I know it's because I don't want to hurt anymore. 1 of his friends told me he's going thru something not so different.
2006-07-10 08:37:25 · 10 answers · asked by isabella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are just completely heart-broken right now. It's been a while and you generally loved the ex. He didn't want to hurt you by staying away for so long, so he decided that he need to get his conscious clear and let you go. Now the other man your not feeling, so explain it to the other man. Explain to him how you just got out of a relationship, and your still a little tender. So he's going to have to understand or don't go out with him. As for the ex, if it was meant to be, he'll come back. Believe me they always do.
2006-07-10 08:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Corona S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a giver and by no potential a receiver. You provide of your self to others yet get no longer something in go back. you position your self very last behind all of us else. For those causes, you're trapped in this courting that you would possibly want to spoil at present. you're insecure and want a boyfriend to hang to and so that you're prepared to take all this abuse extremely than haven't any individual. Your personality lends itself to getting excited by this sort of courting. you ought to talk at the same time with your education counselor or the college psychologist. you could, might want to, and could cut up with him and the earlier the added perfect. do not call him, textual content him, e mail him, or see him, placing out acceptable this second. that's over so keep keeping that to your self. Having a boyfriend is assume to be relaxing and exciting and loving. Are you experiencing any of this stuff? Then stay a procedures faraway from him.
2016-11-06 03:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know your not getting back together then you should try dating other guys to help take your mind off of him. You don't have to be into the guys you date, they are more of your personal support system. Don't lead them on either, you don't wanna break any hearts in the process of mending yours. Just go out and have some fun so the wounds will heal and you can move on!! Exercise is a great Way to relieve stress, it will put you in a totally different mood!!
2006-07-10 08:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by UlickNme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go out w/ the new guy! I mean really, move on! I feel bad that you had to break up just because of long distance... but its been 2 months!
you should tell him what you're goign through, and that it's tough for you. be like "ou want to try to go out for a while so i can try to get over it?" don't mention you know that he's going through the same. He seems ready to start dating again. so why not you? give this guy a chance, he sounds sweet!
2006-07-10 08:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Hawt Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friendly 2 the guy, u`r ex will understand and also b friendly 2 u`r ex bf, may b a bf isn`t into u`r oicture right now hold on untilll u feel ready and confident 2 start dating again
best of wishes
2006-07-10 08:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well baby girl, if he doesn't want to be with u because of a long distance, u need to move on with ur life and be with the current one. he was the one to put an end to it. if u like him still let him know that it's ok for u to be in a long distance relationship.
2006-07-10 08:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it will hurt to break up with someone but maybe wait on the relationship with the other guy just say you wanna get to know him better and themore you get to know him the more u will grow to love him...definately DONT go out with him to make your ex jealous...you would be hurting yourself and him in the long run not fair!
2006-07-10 08:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you truely love someone, you should not consider anything coming in your way, including what people think. Its important for you to consider - what he thinks and what you want.
2006-07-10 08:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't be with the one you love
love the one you're with
2006-07-10 08:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by mytrollinid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and be straightforward.
2006-07-10 08:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋