2006-07-10 08:37:21 · 7 answers · asked by sybyl t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on what you fight about, how long you've been together, and how old you are.
For example, I was 17 when I met my husband who was 19. We were young, we fought a lot about dumb things, like I was very insecure, he was always hanging out with friends that were both boys and girls, rather than be with me, so we always fought about those things. I didnt trust him for a long time. AFter I had my first son, it got worse, he was 21, I was 18, he cheated on me. He was not a man yet, I was to mature for him. finally, we got back together, and things changed 100%. It took us 3 years to change into a better couple, but remember, some people dont change at all. We dont fight anymore, we have two kids now, He and I trust eachother now. And I am not insecue about myself anymore. I know I can move on if he were to ever cheat again or we ever divorced. I dont feel needy, ect... so it depends.
2006-07-10 08:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
really, you love each other? hmmm thats interesting, by whose definition is fighting all the time love? and thats the reality of what you have. what you 'love' is the idea of having a bf and the idea of the bf you have in your head but your reality doesn't match that idea and that means this isn't what you think it is. make a list of what you think 'love' should look like, sound like, and feel like, now is that what you really have? keep telling yourself this is love and you will be miserable the rest of your life.
2006-07-10 15:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fighting is part of relationships. however, if you are fighting more than anything else, there's a problem. i know you two think that you love each other, and that might really be the case, but people who are IN LOVE with each other, very rarely fight. i think you love each other, but are not in love. it's all up to you what you want to do about it.
2006-07-10 15:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends what you fight about. and if its little things you should let it slide and if its like big things then you know what be friends but you have to be more specific on what you fight about. like me and my bf hes very jealous and he wont even let me take a bus or when guys try to talk to me hes about to punch them its pretty funny but u know what sometimes just ignore it dont get as mad at him as he is at you because we girls over exagerate alot of things and dont see it.
2006-07-10 15:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by piggystizzles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound like my sister
2006-07-10 15:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by carolinaz_most_wanted85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done that too...do you think its insecurities?? I do...please im me or email me.
2006-07-10 15:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Aria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first.. go to school and learn to spell.
second.. leave him
2006-07-10 15:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by mytrollinid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋