ive been dating my bf for 1 month im already deeply in love with him
2006-07-10 08:22:58 · 37 answers · asked by shyhotchick242006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U can in a minute let alone a month
2006-07-10 08:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can fall in love almost instantly.
technically, "Love" is a chemical reaction in the brain that allows the chain of events that lead to reproduction. to put it simply.
but, if you want to look at it in terms of human social interaction, it is possible to "love" someone after one conversation. all it takes is the right words, and the right ammount of comfort. if they make you feel secure, and sure about yourself, then you will undoubtedly fall in love a lot quicker.
one month is a pretty good ammount of time to determine "love" you have probably seen this person more often than not in this time period, and by now, you should know them pretty damn well.
and if you feel like your in love, then you are. theres nothing wrong with it.
YOU are the only one who can feel what you feel, dont ask others what is right to feel, if you feel in love, then you are in love.
depending on your age, it may be too soon to say anything, but that too depends on both of your attitudes and personalities.
but, a word of wisdom, too fast too soon, and the relationship will end just as quickly as it heated up. take your time, if you two really are in love, then you have an unlimited ammount of time to take the next emotional steps
2006-07-10 09:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be really careful about your true motives. Why are you so emotionally needy that you gave it your all in only one month. Are you independent? Do you have a life. Or, are you seeking all this from your partner. If you hang a lot of emotional baggage on a relationship it won't last. Your partner won't be able to carry the load. You need to make sure you can bring something to this relationship and not just take from it.
2006-07-10 08:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really? so you know everything about him, the good and the bad and you still 'love' him? you are in the infatuation stage of the relationship, these feelings are perfectly normal, but its also what gets people in trouble later on, trust me everyone who gets married felt this way once, and at least half of them fail and at least half of the rest are miserable they just don't believe in divorce.
really loving someone means you know their bad side too and you love that just as much as the good, and trust me after a month you haven't seen his bad side yet (and yes even he has one) just like he hasn't seen yours. you haven't survived any life stress, you haven't been confronted with family and life issues and dealt with them, you probably haven't even disagreed about anything, what if this guy is truly great, unless you ever dare have a different opinion than him, and then he kicks your teeth in. some of the sweetest 'new' partners in the world are abusers 2 years later, thats how they do it!
i'm not trying to say he's awful or that you are, i'm trying to help you understand what the facts are so that you enjoy the feelings you are having but don't delude yourself about what they mean. right now its simple chemistry, that working is a good sign of potential, but not the love it takes to get you through a lifetime.
2006-07-10 08:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until 6mths dowm the road then tell me if you are still deeply in love. Love is commitment, sacrifice, putting the other person before yourself, love is being with you through thick and thin, My guess is you have not experience any of these things. You are deeply in lust.
2006-07-10 08:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Tzipor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are feeling is infatuaton. It is totally an emotional feeling. One month's time is NOT enough time to know a person well enough to love them in a ROMANTIC way. If I were you, I would not let this head over heels feeling get out of control, and lead you to do something you will regret later on. Good relationships take time to blossom.
2006-07-10 08:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you could feel like your in love the first month. (I Did) Then 5 years later you realize that you were so blind in the began that you don't even know each other. Give it a while and get to know each other really well before you let your feelings of love take you further.
2006-07-10 08:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by luckymom43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
If you feel you are in love, then perhaps you are. In my experience, I never really knew until I was out of the relationship or something changed with me or him so I would say, just be patient and don't let your feelings control your life and decisions. That's a mistake that's easily made.
2006-07-10 08:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is entirely possible! But remember that true love is something that is shared between two people and sweetens with time like a fine wine! What you are feeling now might indeed be true love, but only if mutual feelings are felt towards you by your partner! I wish you both the best!
2006-07-10 08:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jimmy Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fall in "love" even within a minute, but it's greatly hard to find "love" these days, since few even know let alone understand what "love" really means.
2006-07-10 08:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fall in love after one date. The question is, how old are you? If you're in college or younger, it's highly doubtful that you've found your one true love.
2006-07-10 08:25:24 · answer #11 · answered by Troy S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋