i have a boyfriend tht is obsessed wit me and at first i liked him but now i kinda dont. im scared 2 break up with him. he will probably start 2 cry!!! any advise??
2006-07-10 08:18:43 · 18 answers · asked by daisy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well obsessed isn't good. But check again cause maybe he just really cares about you and that's very hard to find in a guy. However if you really just don't like him like that than you need to be honest and just tell him because the longer you wait the more attached he may get and the more peices you break his heart into.
2006-07-10 08:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kelsey W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can almost feel what he is like and guess what you are feeling like.
I think most people here would tell you to dump him. But if I was the guy, then I would want to hear you tell me that you want to break up.
What you say is the reason is entirely left to you, but try and be honest to yourself and reasonable to him.
C'mon he is just 'so in love with you' !!!!
Telling you this because I was dumped and I took several years to come over it. It scarred me so deeply.
Take some time for yourself, take a vacation, you need some time alone for yourself. Think. Why do you think you dont need the kind of attention that he is giving you??? Do you think you will be happy with much lesser or no attention at all ???
What are your expectations???
A lot of questions that you will need to answer yourself before you give him the door.
Cheers!!
2006-07-10 16:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're freaking out, just a little, about him obsessing over you. He should get it and back down a little. If he doesn't get the message, you need to slowly end the relationship. Please be careful and don't crush him (more than necessary). Breaking up is hard, but sometimes you have to do it. And there is almost always somebody crying over it.
2006-07-10 15:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by im.in.college.so.i.know.stuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should set up a date with him and tell him how you feel. If he really loves you he'll understand how you feel and he should not want to see you unhappy with him or anyone else. More than likely he will cry and they may be something you cannot prevent. Just make sure you tell him in a nice way and don't just throw it at him. Tell him in a stern, but soft way.
2006-07-10 15:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you like him aside from the fact he's obsessive? just have a talk with him and tell him to take it easy. you dont have to break up w/ he guy!
2006-07-10 15:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Hawt Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 'm in the same situation right now and I'm probably going to break up with my b/f and git sum1 else... Try it!
2006-07-10 15:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by falloutboyfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so let him cry if he is showin obsessive behavior now then u need to cut him loose so he dont start turnin violent on u, if u need help tell ur parents.
2006-07-10 15:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be out of there faster than a slut in a school uniform.
2006-07-10 15:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by TKO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will get worse if you lead him on. Do it while you can. Tell him youre gay or something. What ever it takes. you have to do it.
2006-07-10 15:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all cry when we get hurt--BUT WE ALL GET OVER IT-- haven't you cried?? didn't you get over it?
Now also isn't it better to do it now thant later?? Everyday that you wait is one more day he believes everything is ok
2006-07-10 15:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by piawom420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋