2006-07-10 08:08:59 · 60 answers · asked by spongeball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could be lots of reasons ... you could be so good looking that guys don't think they have a chance, or so plain looking that they don't notice you ... so smart that they are intimidated, or so dumb they can't bear your company. But the fact is, when the right guy comes along at the right time, he'll ask ... or better yet, if you see a guy who interests you, why not ask him? Sometimes, a little nudge is all it takes - and these days, there's no shame in a girl asking.
2006-07-10 08:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by nkasoff 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like me... I am wondering the same thing... a few questions (these don't apply to me), are you a behemoth, are you hairy backed, did you hit every branch of the ugly tree on the way down... if any of these apply fix the problem and ask the next question. After all have been answered Fix, reevaluate the situation and ask yahoo again. I personally have just not been looking and can't really be bothered by the stresses of a signifigant other... all the (not that I am shallow) good looking ones are gold diggers who like 40Yr Old's money, Or they are comming with a pre-made (not going to happen), or they hide in thier houses and ask why no one will ask them out on Yahoo answers. Have a great day.
2006-07-10 08:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by need to know basis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you shallow or fat, do you demand a large amount of money I.E. gifts and expensive food? DO you love the man or are you a user. Are your expectations to high and you turn down everyone for not being good enough. Are you better than other people. Are you a slave to your Friends dictating who you can and can not go out with. Are you accessible to men or boys based on age that would be interested in a person like you.
A house and husband and child do not just fall out of the sky you must plan if you fail to plan you are planning on failing.
Good luck.
2006-07-10 08:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you available? I mean do you make a conscious effort to meet new people, do new things, and go to new places? If not, there's your answer.
If you are doing all of those things, then ask your friends to be brutally, like braveheart brutal, honest about why you don't go out. Most likely they will be able to tell you something.
If all else fails, you can start doing the asking. Guys love it when women make the first move: they aren't intimidated or turned off like you might think.
Good luck.
2006-07-10 08:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by im.in.college.so.i.know.stuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have anyone for two years either. It got lonely sometimes, but I was focused on myself and if I needed fun then I could go to my friends. You should stop worrying about this because it makes you seem very desperate, a definite turn-off for anyone. Be yourself and meet people to make friends, not boyfriends or girlfriends. Eventually someone who likes you for who you are will ask you out, or you can ask them out. Either way, steer clear of the desperation path, because that usually leads to crappy relationships and rough times.
2006-07-10 08:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by holly_wood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try some different looks or make-up. go to belks or somewhere where brides get make-up done ask them what you should do in the future and give them a tip if they anwser and are nice if not try someone else. if you like it stick with it. but if you are not proud of ittry a different look. you don't have to go all out to get a nice look. try a different and exiting. if you want go to a salon and ask what hair style looks best on you. if you have changed your hair cut sense you did have a date, take a picture to the salon and ask for that "do". you also might want to get out more. volonteer at a homeless shelter. it might change your prospective. i did that yesterday. i am a changed person.
2006-07-10 08:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by funyakkers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you haven't been going out as well. Make yourself more available... I mean that not in a bad way ok... what I mean is, try going out with your friends and be more open in meeting new people as well. Be more outgoing, sociable and approachable. Perhaps that'll help.=D Ever tried online dating sites like webdate.com or wealthymen? You might just get lucky there too.=D
2006-07-11 21:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by crazyangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its time for yourself, maybe there is something in this time alone you need to learn. I have been single for 2 years and I am enjoying my personal time, I have used it for personal growth. And I am not ugly or unpleasant. But not everything depends on looks. Take the time and enjoy it, when it is time the right one will come along.
2006-07-10 08:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by hateizmybestfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you look like? Are you confident? Outgoing? Attractive? Intelligent? Humorous? Ambitious? A strong communicator?
Everyone wants the same thing in a partner: intelligent, attractive, funny .... you know the list. Are you these things? Or are you not? If you are ... put yourself in a position to capitalize on your personal strengths. If you aren't.... I think you know what to do.
2006-07-10 08:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing it's because of your grammar. They might think you're a little on the slow side and too easy to take advantage of. Then they'd just feel like predators and nobody likes to feel like that.
Unless you're under 21. Then it's a confidence issue. Suck it up and call your own shots you sad little thing.
2006-07-10 08:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋