2006-07-10 07:54:09 · 12 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is really rude if she expects it.
I'm a student and my guy is working but I feel bad if he pays for everything. I don't expect him to pay fro everything, and I pick up some things, even if it isn't equal.
2006-07-10 08:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by scaryclairy 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
No. That's not fair. Besides, most girls like to help pay. They don't like to be a burden, so as long as you don't shove it in their face, but ask them if they'd like to help or pay their part, I'm sure any girl would be more than happy to pick up an extra shift or something just to be with you. Best of luck.
2006-07-10 14:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what kind of realtionship were having, but usually as a common curtisy she will pitch in some, the guy will take the majority, unless she really has no money whats so ever, but she better be persueing something in her life, goals are a good sign of character and this usually falls in with college girls.
2006-07-10 15:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by caliboy80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my case i do ... well its the case with all of us here in Kuwait ... we do ... but not everything ... like we'll pay the air fare and the hotel and you know sometimes you gotta take the out to a nice place to eat but the rest is her's and to be fair they do pay alot for us too considering they pay the transportation fee's and buy you expensive gifts and clothes ... so its 50/50 :)
2006-07-10 14:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by KuwaiTi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never have, and never will unless we're married. i think guys pay for enough. she'll have to split everything down the middle on vacation. i might pay for dinner or two while we are there and things like that, but that's about it.
2006-07-10 15:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman in my 30's and I just went on a second vacation with a man I was dating... didn't take my wallet out once, nor would I ever. HE invited me to go...
2006-07-10 14:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should offer to if your a couple but decide up front to avoid the weirdness during the trip. i think most girls will say share the cost
2006-07-10 14:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you want to fly back / return together when the trip is over :)
2006-07-10 15:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by hotsauce22777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sharing a bed, you do.
2006-07-10 14:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell No.
2006-07-10 14:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by danzahn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋