2006-07-10 07:47:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it means he doesn't want a girl who is easy...or acts desperate....maybe he wants a girl who acts hard to get...
2006-07-10 07:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by fashiondivine01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all guys like a challenge because when they get you they think they actually won something (all the guys I know are constantly competing for something). Of course they like a girl that gives them what they want the first day but then they don't usually call back. Make them work for what they want and show them you are worth it. Most everyone likes to play some sort of game, thus the challenge.
2006-07-10 07:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have discovered the double edged sword of men. We want to sleep with a woman as soon as possible...it's a caveman thing forgive us. But down the road a little ways we start thinking about how easy it was and start wondering how easy it was for other guys too. Then we lose respect for the woman. I know it's crazy.
But a challenge changes the whole situation. If you make us chase you, it will drive us nuts...OK, more nuts. If we have to work at it to gain your admiration, when we achieve it, it is all the more glorious to us. We know that you made us work for it and we respect you for it.
2006-07-10 08:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by William E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who wants a challenge want to brag to all of his friends about how hot the girl was and how hard it was to get her to sleep with him. It means the guy is so in love with his girl-getting ability that he thinks that he's too good for most girls.
2006-07-10 07:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by im.in.college.so.i.know.stuff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy wants someone who's not going to sleep with him on the first date. If he does, or wants to, hes just lookin for sex. However he does NOT want someone who is too shy to try anything and who won't have sex with him. So its hard, but you need to find that balance between hard to get and easy.
2006-07-10 07:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who does not like things to be too easy. Likes having to work for something or anything.
2006-07-10 07:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by elguzano1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him what he means..does he want you to play hard to get?..is he looking for someone who isn't always available and has some spunk about them..men like the chase and the tease..it gets them excited and looking forward to the game so to speak..
2006-07-10 07:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by FloNightingGale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve spelt "dose" wrong, it should be does.....and it depends what theyre challenging you to do..could be a race or a fight etc.. all ways its probably just to show off infont of others.
2006-07-10 07:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl thats hard to get and is hard to get to go out with
2006-07-10 07:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋