so negative about it. It IS possible to work things out and come out as a stronger couple , isnt it? He's already done things to show that he really really cares, and doesnt want to hurt me again.
2006-07-10 07:39:40 · 16 answers · asked by JustWondering22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, Just watch yourself girl,
It's always a risk to go back to something that you put in the past,
If he is really working hard to make it better this time then you might want to give him a chance. Just don't get to attached this time because he may make that mistake again that hurt you before and caused division. So if there is any signs of that happening again then I wouldn't get involved with him again.
Cause if he did it once there is a chance he will do it again and again in the future unless he really repented from it and Promised to death and God that he would never do it again.
I just don't want to see you get hurt. So Put up your wall with this guy until he can totally 100% prove himself in a gentlmen more adult and mature way this time.
Tell Him what your feelings are and what you don't want happening again and tell him that if you see signs of it or he attempts it again then you are going to scratch him off your list and keep him in the past!
Don't run to the past ever... Just to comfort you or to help you with your cravings for a guy.
Don't settle for trash when you could have Tresure!!
THINK OUTTA THE BOX GIRL!
Good luck!
2006-07-10 07:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Anything IS possible, just be careful, things ALWAYS go well at the beginning! Okay, well, not ALWAYS.... but frequently, especially if you two were a couple previously, because he knows what makes you tick... he knows your likes and dislikes.... If you are very happy in this relationship, enjoy it... pray for it.... but be cautious, and alert... I have tried it, and it NEVER went well for me... in fact at some point the past usually came up, and that's when it was obvious that there was no future.... As far as the negativity you are experiencing, my guess would be these people love you and really don't want to watch you hurt again! But only you can decide what is right for you, keep the negative friends close enough to watch the relationship, but not close enough to harm it... and Good Luck...
2006-07-10 07:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by tink_n_fockers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that it depends on what exactly he did... The majority of the time people usually do not change, and their behavior is highly indicative of their personality. However, if it wasn't a huge breach of trust, it is possible to work things out and come out stronger.
Though negativity isn't a great thing, most of the people who are being negative about it are simply acting protectively towards you... they probably don't want to see you hurt again.
2006-07-10 07:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sahara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any time a guy tells you he's leaving in the back of your courting because he's not waiting, there are underlying motives. He would not be waiting for dedication, yet till you've truly been pushing him no guy will ditch a respectable courting subsequently. even as your boyfriend says he's not waiting for a courting, that is because he's attempting out the limitations of your favor for him. You made it too straight forward for him the first time round. shy away and disappear for a lengthy time period? If there is not somebody else he will abruptly start up searching round for you, and favor you back. by using being autonomous, positive, and funky on your own he will earnings all new respect for you. If I were you i'd completely ignore about him.
2016-10-14 07:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can make that decision for you. You are the only one that can decide for yourself. I have never hurt nor touched a woman in a undesirable way and I am not married yet. I'm not waiting for the right one to come in my life. I just don't think I am ready to be responsible for another in my life. It takes a very special women that I just haven't met yet and she probably dooes'nt;t ex-hist, but for your case if you are going to try an make a relationship work...it's going to take two to make it work. If he has dishonored you once, he will do it again. The first mistake to hurt a women should of been his last. He does'nt;t deserve another chance. he needs a good attention getter. What does it take to be a good Man is what he must face to himself before he can ever please you right.
2006-07-10 07:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope it works out but I have peronally never known anyone who got back together and ever worked out. It has always been a rule to me not to get back with an ex. You broke up for a reason. ESPECIALLY if they cheated! Once a cheater always a cheater.
Seriously though I hope you can prove me wrong in 5-10 years and you are still with him. GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-10 07:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bchlvr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its possible but not likely. If he hurt you before chances are he will do it again. Wait, watch and see. If his old behavior is going to come back it will probably come back quick.
2006-07-10 07:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because everyone thinks your an idiot for giving someone a chance again who hurt you already.
2006-07-10 07:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really nice..
if he is really sincere, there's no reason it will not work out..
others will be doubtful, sure..
but its all up to you..
if you think that you can really do it and you are meant for each other then go for it..
it will not be the same as before..
it will either be better or it'll be worse..
hopefully its for the better since you both are trying to make it work..
good luck..
2006-07-10 07:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what people think.. The only thing that matters is how he treats you, and that he makes you happy... Don't listen to other people... People are quick to think that people don't change, but in very rare occasions, they do... Just be happy and enjoy it...
2006-07-10 07:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋