Fat, frumpy, dirty looking and scraggly, I've seen these women with attractive men. Women with 3.5 kids more or less. Yet a 33 sbf, full time working woman cant get a date? Am I THAT ugly?
2006-07-10 07:25:22 · 28 answers · asked by ladytina30 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not ugly. Most of the time that happens because the guy will see whats inside the girl and get over the outisde...or they had drunk sex, she got pregnant, and he just never left her. LOL. I don't know, I doubt you're ugly though. Maybe you're not in the right places to meet men. NOT BARS...alcohol can be bad for that. Work is also a bad place to meet men. Truth be told, there's no good place. I suggest through friends as you will eventually go to them for approval anyways and they can sometimes see things you cannot.
2006-07-10 07:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrianna Faith 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ever seen a good looking woman with an "ugly" guy? It happens all of the time, sometimes others can't see what we see in that person... I would rather be with a less attractive guy, then an *** who thinks he's all that.... Mostly, from what I hear I have had attractive men in my life, though I didn't always view them that way when I first saw them.... I was more interested in whom they were... Don't get me wrong I LOVE my HOT fiancé... but what's funny is he doesn't really see himself as "all that"... and I don't usually see myself as "all that" either... which works out so cool, because we each feel lucky to have someone we see as being so hot!
There again could be yet another explanation... Sometimes attractive people don't see themselves the way other people do...
2006-07-10 07:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by tink_n_fockers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ROFL...people used to say that about me.
With me, I didn't think that I was all that attractive. I was uneasy about being with someone that I thought was attractive because I felt that I couldn't keep her - for a lack of better words.
If you are a wonderful person on the inside, it doesn't matter if you are ugly or not. But I have a hard time believing that an attractive 33 y/o sbf is having a hard time... ;)
2006-07-10 07:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. He may not be so shallow as to judge a woman by appearance. maybe he thinks of other things when choosing a woman. Intelligence, feelings, hygiene, ability NOT TO JUDGE OTHERS. I am a sbf 30, but it doesn't bother me to see people I deem as unattractive to be with a handsome man. Sometimes the problem with not having a man may stem from your own problems.
AND!
Just because he's attractive doesn't mean he's the greatest catch ever either.
2006-07-10 07:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've wondered myself-
here's what I came up with
- she's a whore in the bedroom (not necessarily bad, that'll hold a lot of men)
- she's rich
- she can cook
- she has a wonderful personality
- he is sure no one else would want her so no chance of her being unfaithful
- some men cannot stand competition so they have an 'ugly' wife but look out for the mistress!!!
Don't get yourself down, I have also realised that some men are scared of career women because she is more independant and will not put up with the b***sh*t that they try to pass.
Hold it down. You will soon be handpicked by someone who can appreciate you for who you are.
Do not feel you are ugly, men just can't handle successful women!!!
2006-07-10 07:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes. Mostly smile and nod then leave the next gesture or motion up to her. It means you are admiring her beauty, but not meaning any harm by it. It all depends on whether she is alone, or not and sometimes you are just waiting around and killing time or studying people. People have to be in a position to do this, as its kind of hard walking around to keep looking like you describe. lol I think people read way too much in things and it's not always meant to be offensive.
2016-03-26 23:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that these women became less attractive after they got married, gaining weight, having kids, etc., so the husbands still love them and remember when they were good looking.
I do think it's rare to see a good looking guy with an unattractive woman - it's usually the other way around.
2006-07-10 07:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not always about looks. That fat frumpy woman might be the sweetest, nicest, best-cooking women he has ever met. She might treat him like a king, and yes, feed his ego in more ways than one. She might even be rich!
Hope u find a date soon, you also have qualities that someone will appreciate some day.
2006-07-10 07:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mahira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of woman are very self absorbed and think to much of themselves... many of these so called good looking woman, are only worried about themselves and what they want. As far as an ugly or fat person getting a nice looking man.... beauty is only skinned deep. You could be the finest thing out there... but if you attitude and demeanor are ugly.......... that makes you ugly.
I wouldn't worry about it though............. then your time comes.... God will send your mate, for now, enjoy and have fun!
2006-07-10 07:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey there lady! stop right there! fat ladies are not ugly, probably(dont take it as an offence) they have better personality than u. just because they look a lil different, it doesnt mean u can make fun of them, i think ur being a lil rude.
get a gd personality, change the way everyone thinks about u and hope for the better.
2006-07-10 07:37:44 · answer #10 · answered by angelic_m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋