my gf wants to have sex with me and i want to have sex with her what do i do i dont want to get her pregnant?

Question

condoms are not one hundred % safe what do i do

Answer 1

She should go to Planned Parenthood.
They will be able to advise her on the best methods of birth control for her. You should still do your part by using the condom as a means of practicing safe sex.

Answer 2

get her on birth control and use condoms. if the condom breaks there is a thing called plan b. she can go take this pill within 48 hours that the condom popped or that you had unprotected. all it does is start the period cycle and stop ovulation. but if she does get pregnant even with the plan b it won't hurt the baby. there is also the "female condom" that she can get at the drug store. and if you aren't ready for the risks of sex and ending up having a kid or an std then don't have sex. know your risks going in. would you really be ready to risk living with aids for the rest of your life over one experience. or having a kid. that is big responsiblilty no more freedom or anything. all your money is not on you anymore it goes for diapers, formula, clothes, toys, medicine and many other things. but hey if your actually ready then actually be responsible

Answer 3

Yeah use a condom. Or, she should get some birth control and then use a condom with that. Always use at least two methods of birth control. And never use two condoms at the same time. Rubbing of the latex will cause them to both break. Not good. Otherwise, if you're that scared of it, just don't do it. But honestly, it's not a big deal. Well, having sex is ALWAYS a big deal. But worrying about the pregnancy isn't.

Answer 4

You could wear a condom and get a lubricant that has spermicide in it... or she can also where a female condom. But still use your condoms as well. Abstinence is the only 100% safe way not to get pregnant!

Answer 5

Use a condom with spermicidal lubricant. It kills the sperm on contact.
If you look at the % of pregnancies from condoms, they are from the condom breaking or the man slipping out.

Use lubricated ones, they slide easily and don't wear out or break as easily. And, right after you shoot, you grab that condom tight against the shaft to make sure it stays on you and doesn't slip off when you pull out. And, if you feel your erection fading in "mid-act", again grab that rubber and pull out before you slip out.

Answer 6

It depends on how old you are first of all.If you are old enough there are all kinds of birth control method's to use.Yes condom may not be 100% safe but if you both use protecion it helps.Plus with no protecion at all your taking the chance of maybe getting a STD.

Answer 7

I would stay pure and wait do not have sex right away,
Get marriade first. That is the best way because then you don't have to worry about getting her pregnate at all cause you both are one already in marriage. That is the best way possible. If you both are not ready to raise a child then you both are not ready to have sex. Simply Put!

Answer 8

Wait! If you are second guessing like this then you should wait the only sure way to avoid pregnancy is to not do it at all. I know I sound like a PSA but believe me u should wait until you are 100 percent certain and have researched contraceptive methods throughly cause a baby is the least of your worries....remember....STD's and AIDS are real!

Answer 9

omg..if u have to ask u prolly shouldnt do it..but if ur gonna then use a condom and see if she can get on the pill..but at least use a condom..if shes a virgin just make sure its very romantic for her..and let her get on top so she can control the pace..it hurts..a lot..dont force it either...even if shes not a virgi.its ur first time together make it romantic...hope it helps...hit me back
peace

Answer 10

Have your girlfriend get on some birth control, use a condom and pull out!